39 [M4F] Can You Remember The Last Time You Had An Awesome Connection?
It really is one of the most exciting, exhilarating and all encompassing feelings when you have a solid AF connection, right? Why is it so hard to find that magic again? Lets rekindle that!
I'm a handsome by normal societal standards, tall, in shape guy in EST (you don't have to be), married with kiddos in a roommate relationship, experienced in this world of OA relationships and looking again after some time away to find someone that I can build something special with, rooted in a foundation of teasing jokes, laughing, self deprecation, interesting observations, deep conversations, and deeper admiration & loyalty. I have a few hobbies I'm very passionate about and love to share with the right person. I also read, am educated (in the traditional sense, re: schooling) & have a full time job I absolutely LOVE.
While we don't need to share the same time zone, I do gel the best with someone who:
- Is in a dead or unenthusiastic bedroom. If your significant other (SO) gets it in multiple times a week & you love your sex life, we won't mesh well. Misery loves company in that regard!
- Is looking for a solid, strong, emotional-first connection where the sexual piece will follow in due time (but no rush)
- Has the time throughout the week and weekend (understanding times can be busy) to give attention & building the solid connection we both need in order to be successful
- Would consider themselves in the body type range of fit/skinny to mom bod. If you use the term BBW to describe yourself, you're AMAZING but it won't be a match on my end; I'm sorry!
- Has children (or one child) or may not have kiddos but understands the commitment attached to them and is patient in times it's needed.
- For all that is holy PLEASE DO NOT reach out to me if you currently are engaged in an OA with someone else, whether you've been talking for 2 days or 2 months (It's baffling I even have to say it).
I don't have a strict age range I'm looking for, I'd just say don't be in your early 20's or late 50's. Similarly so I don't have "a type" aesthetically so don't let it stop you from reaching out!
Show me how creative & unique you can be in reaching out. Lets have fun and banter for fifteen minutes about something random, or chat and see where the conversation takes us! I look forward to talking to you!