u/Complex_Union_7856

My wife and I just had our first baby 5 days ago (via C-section, currently dealing with some minor healing complications). While I am doing everything I can to support her recovery and care for our daughter, I am at an absolute breaking point with my wife's behavior.
This didn't just start with postpartum hormones; she has been continuously hostile, distant, and negative toward me throughout the pregnancy. She constantly brings up past arguments, attacks my character, and aggressively resists any single counter-thought or opinion I express. Strangely, she is completely happy, smiling, and warm with her own parents, friends and brothers, but the moment she turns to me, it is pure negativity.
To be completely clear: there is absolutely no romantic involvement or interest from her side toward me. The relationship feels entirely transactional.
I am carrying the entire burden of this household. I cover 100% of the expenses, handle all the logistics, and am constantly running around ensuring she and the baby have everything they need medically and physically. I get zero gratitude. Instead, if I try to step away for an hour to go to the gym or clear my head, she belittles my career, claiming my salary is "free money" and that I face no real challenges in life.
I am completely fed up and drained. I have stopped talking and have just gone silent to protect my own sanity. Frankly, I don't want to keep a relationship with her anymore because of how toxic this has become, but I am deeply worried about my daughter and how a separation will affect our families.
How do I navigate this? Do I just emotionally detach completely, treat this purely as a co-parenting transaction, and focus on my child? How do I establish boundaries with someone who refuses to see any value in what I do? Any advice is appreciated.

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