u/Connect-Strain9390

23 [M4F] #London

You can call me Adam for now. I tend to think names are something you earn over time.

I’m 23 and based in London. I’ve been involved in the BDSM world throughout my adult life, including a long term dynamic that lasted just over six years. I understand what it takes to build something real, structured, and consistent.

On the surface, I’m easy to get along with. Respectful, composed, and fairly grounded. I take care of myself, I have a solid life, and I value the people around me. But I’ve always known there’s more to me than that.

I’m not interested in surface level dominance. I prefer something more psychological. I pay attention, I learn how someone thinks, and I use that. Not loudly, not carelessly, but deliberately. The kind of dynamic where influence builds over time and doesn’t need to be forced.

I’m 6’1, 220, athletic, with a martial arts background. I train regularly and value discipline. Ideally I’d want someone who shares that to some extent.

Outside of that, I’m into games, Doctor Who, League, and music.

As for kinks, I’m experienced and open minded. I’ve taken the time to explore and understand what I enjoy. It would be easier to list limits. I’m not into scat, cuckolding or anything adjacent, or feminisation. Beyond that, I care more about compatibility, trust, and communication.

With regards to what I am able to provide for you as a Dom, I will give you structure in the form of weekly and daily checklists to give your life form and meaning. I will give you purpose, in worshipping and serving me. And I will give you a Dom that keeps true to his word, as long as you do the same.

If you’re looking for something long term, with depth and a bit more intensity beneath the surface, we might get along.

If you have read this far, clearly you are interested. Why dont you ask me about my contracts, or my rules and guidelines documents? You know you want to, little one.

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