I am a top earner at my club. My club’s VIP rooms do not have cameras. I do not suck or fuck, don’t allow them to kiss me or touch me down there or meet up outside the club (if they press, I’ll give a Google voice and block them after they walk away from me). However, as far as my extras go, I give a very light hand job if they tip me. I start with my usual dance and wait for them to pop a Boner. That’s when a man’s caveman instinct takes over and you have Pussy Control (trademark registered 😂). Then I ask for a tip if they “want my hand down their pants“ …. almost always they say yes. (I wish married women knew this about their men.) Then I go over the underwear and if they tip me even more, I will go under. This is how I regularly make a band or more. (Edit bc this keeps coming up… A grand is the bottom tier that I make if the club is dead and there’s just a few customers. I live in a low cost of living area. If the club is packed, I make way more than a grand. I am also only there 4 hours. I just don’t see the point about lying about how much I make the way a lot of girls do).
It is the worst hand job of their life and I make sure they do not come. Because that’s not the point. I tell them I will do the best I can to make them come to get them to tip more and at the end when the timer goes off and they have blue balls, I shrug and either offer more time or tell them “sorry I tried my best“ and I go on my merry way looking for my next victim if they don’t re-up (they often do at least once) 🥳. Stupid crusties.
There is absolutely no way I would make this much if I did not do this. I find it vile and disgusting, but if I’m going to be at the club, paying a house fee, risking my mental health and depleting my drive to be social and date outside of work, it better be worth it.
Prior to this club I was at a place that had cameras. If you did anything like this, you had to tip the bouncers. That vibe gets weird and I also hate giving them money. I averaged $200 to $800 at this club. I now regularly make a grand minimum or way more when the club is packed.
I should also note that I have a no tattoo sexy Barbie look that appeals to most people and I work at a high-end Gentlemen’s club, which usually has the clientele willing to tip well. At dive bar clubs or urban clubs I don’t think this method would work.
If I had to dance in a club with cameras again or have my every move watched by bouncers, I think I would retire from dancing. It wouldn’t be worth it anymore.
We all have different thresholds. To me, this is hardly an extra. It is not sexual at all in my mind; I could be rubbing my hand against the side of a building for all that it effects me. And for my night being worth it it’s OK touching some slimy, sweaty thing for a few minutes. But anything more than this like sucking or fucking or even having them kiss me or touch me down there is a absolute No.
So I’m just curious… What are your Extras? Because at close when I’m lined up to get paid out there are certain girls who are always in line with me and I know they are not in those rooms just rubbing their ass into dudes all night either.