u/Consistent-Can-1271

[F4M] I want an adventure

TL;DR: I'm looking for a semi-lit NSFW adventure with plenty of OOC chatter and collab to tell a fun and occasionally sexy story.

Hi! I find myself with a new job that has me traveling basically all the time. So, I'm looking for a partner to add some fun and spiciness to my otherwise isolating life.

Important things to me:
• A fun story with **earned** sexy moments (at least 50% non-smut)
• Good writing (+ grammar!)
• I'd usually write a paragraph or two, maybe longer if I'm feeling it, or snappier shorter stuff if we both seem active.

• Spec fic settings
• Fantasy
• Sci fi
• Urban fantasy

• Chatting OOC!
• I'd rather connect with a person as my partner than just write into the void. If I just wanted to write erotica, I'd be doing that!
• Collabing to build the world/adventure. Almost a "co-GM".
• I really like knowing if something hits, how much, if you're getting off to it 🤷‍♀️. If I'm trying to write hot and don't know whether or not it lands I'll get anxious as.

The spicy parts:
• For one, I'm bit as into the extreme kink stuff that is very common in rp spaces. I'm not a prude but I prefer stuff you'd see in a typical romantasy or romance novel (which are often themselves pretty effing scandalous).
• I can get into it more in private, but overall I'm pretty darn sub and especially like this when sex "isn't my fault."

Icks include:
• Cringe shoehorning kink into every aspect of the setting.
• Rude/pushy etc.
• Feeling like I'm writing at a brick wall
• Taking it too seriously instead of with a sense of fun and humor.
• Asking for my socials
• Sending pictures and stuff without asking

I'm not going to provide any scenarios because I'm looking for a guy to have fun with more than casting a character, if that makes sense. But if I sound like maybe a good fit, please introduce yourself and maybe pitch me an idea, a vibe, or a concept!

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u/Consistent-Can-1271 — 3 days ago