u/Cultural-Company9154

I feel guilty as hell for doing it, but I went through my wife’s phone. She’s been constantly on it lately, smiling and ignoring me.

I found her chats with a guy friend. They weren’t sexting or anything, but the conversations feel too close and intimate. He was complaining about his girlfriend being angry, and she was giving him long emotional replies with hearts.

Now I can’t stop overthinking. I know I invaded her privacy, but I feel sick every time her phone lights up.

Am I overreacting?

When i was in school long time ago me and my friends sued to swap our sister's numbers for chatting and friendship. Did someone else do this.

my wife 20F has been doing her bachelors. Recently i found her talking to some male classmate. It was a casual conversation. I felt uncomfortable about it. When i asked her she said it was nothing and it's the same as i talk with female collegues. I work from home and it's for work. Don't know what to do?