u/DBBlackfyre

Hello everyone. I’m here looking for my submissive.

I am 29, Caucasian, from Europe, have brown hair and eyes, I’m relatively tall (around 180cm) and muscular

Kink wise I have experience with power dynamics, such as Master/slave, Owner/pet, as well as DDLG.  Controlling my submissive is one of my biggest kinks, so tasks, orders, orgasm control/denial punishments and rewards are guaranteed. Impact play is also one of my top kinks, and I enjoy using my bare hand, as well as whips, crops and paddles on misbehaving subs that need guidance.

Humiliation and degradation are something I enjoy, but I enjoy praise and reassurance just as much. Ideally it would be a mix of both. One thing that is of note would be bodywriting as I love the sight of my submissive’s body covered in markings either degrading, possessive or both.

Training is the last but not least of my top kinks, this includes anal training, position training, obedience and behaviour training as well as petplay.
My limits are scat, blood and causing any permanent injury to my sub, animals, anything illegal and knives or needles.

Relationship wise, im someone that greatly cares about and takes care of their partner. I’m naturally protective of my person and will give them the world. I like spending much of my time with my partner, be it calls or dates or just spending time together, each doing their own thing.

I am someone who respects the boundaries and limits of my partner. Unless told otherwise I will never push on a limit or boundary, though if asked to challenge them by my partner, I will try to set up the conditions for it. Safewords will always be respected, no questions asked.

I am someone who understands that time is required for a real relationship to bud, and has patience to see it through, provided there is actual effort from the other side in building a dynamic and relationship.

As for my hobbies and interests, I work with animals and have endless affections for them. I enjoy hiking, and going on strolls, cycling and working out.

Im a big fan of fantasy and sci fi, and enjoy books and movies of those genres, along with the occasional tv series.

Video games, board games and tabletop games are some of my lesser indulged hobbies, but if youre somebody who enjoys these, I would greatly appreciate getting to know you.

 

Who im looking for?

The person im looking for is somebody that wants to give up control to a dominant that they build trust with. If youre someone who wants to be put in your place, on your knees and made to obey and submit, I would love to hear from you. If youre searching for your dominant, your master, your owner, reach out and ill do all I can to prove to you that I am this person for you.

Experience doesn’t matter to me as if its your first dip into kink or youre experienced, I will guide you at a pace comfortable youre with.

Ideally long term, the goal would be to meet up, so someone that is open to this would take priority. Of course, there is no pressure for this, and such a date will most definitely be as far into the future as it takes for sufficient trust to be built.

 

 

If you found some part of my post that resonates with you, I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

Hello there!

I’m a 29-year-old Dom from Europe who is looking for a submissive to build a connection with. I'm 180cm tall with a muscular build, brown hair and brown eyes.

I work in academia, and tend to have busy days during the week but I always make sure I have time to spend with people I care about.

I massively value open communication, and expect us to talk through both good and bad things openly. I’m patient and a believer in taking things at a pace were both comfortable with.

Outside of kink, I love animals, and greatly enjoy helping them. Nature is another great love for me, and I enjoy taking long walks through parks or forests, along river banks, or hikes through mountains. I go to the gym, and do jogging as well.

When I want to stay in, I enjoy reading, especially sci-fi and fantasy, miniature painting, board games and video games. I also dabble with writing sometimes.

In kink, I enjoy leading and taking control. I love giving out tasks for you to do, and rewarding you and punishing (funisments) you depending on the outcome. Some of my biggest kinks are orgasm control, impact play, especially spanking, bondage, pet play, light humiliation and degradation as well as training.

As much as I love the physical aspects of power exchange, nothing beats the psychological side of somebody willingly giving up control to someone they trust.

My limits, something I am definitely not up to doing is scat, blood, knife or needle plays, and things that can cause permanent harm to the submissive, as well as any extreme impact play such as beatings.

I’m a firm believer in security and safety, and your well-being and health will always come first. Safe-words are a must, and aftercare will be always available.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally you are from Europe or open to travel in time, and are interested for the relationship to grow into a 24/7 dynamic and later a real-life relationship if we both feel ready for it. Experience isn’t a factor as whether you’re new at kink, or experienced, I’m happy to go at your pace and explore all the good stuff. We aren’t in a rush.

You are also somebody that is looking for a relationship based on power exchange and that isn’t only for the bedroom.

Experience isn’t a requirement, as we will be taking things as slow as you want. There isn’t any rush here to get laid.

A massive bonus would be if you shared some of my hobbies, though its in no way a requirement.

The most important thing though is that you’re genuinely interested in trying out this kind of relationship, and are open to communication.

If you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you. I look forward to getting to know all about you and what you’re looking for, and see where thing goes!

Hello there!

I’m a 29-year-old Dom from Europe who is looking for a submissive to build a connection with. I'm 180cm tall with a muscular build, brown hair and brown eyes.

I work in academia, and tend to have busy days during the week but I always make sure I have time to spend with people I care about.

I massively value open communication, and expect us to talk through both good and bad things openly. I’m patient and a believer in taking things at a pace were both comfortable with.

Outside of kink, I love animals, and greatly enjoy helping them. Nature is another great love for me, and I enjoy taking long walks through parks or forests, along river banks, or hikes through mountains. I go to the gym, and do jogging as well.

When I want to stay in, I enjoy reading, especially sci-fi and fantasy, miniature painting, board games and video games. I also dabble with writing sometimes.

In kink, I enjoy leading and taking control. I love giving out tasks for you to do, and rewarding you and punishing (funisments) you depending on the outcome. Some of my biggest kinks are orgasm control, impact play, especially spanking, bondage, pet play, light humiliation and degradation as well as training.

As much as I love the physical aspects of power exchange, nothing beats the psychological side of somebody willingly giving up control to someone they trust.

My limits, something I am definitely not up to doing is scat, blood, knife or needle plays, and things that can cause permanent harm to the submissive, as well as any extreme impact play such as beatings.

I’m a firm believer in security and safety, and your well-being and health will always come first. Safe-words are a must, and aftercare will be always available.

What I’m looking for:

Ideally you are from Europe or open to travel in the future, and are interested for the relationship to grow into a 24/7 dynamic and later a real-life relationship if we both feel ready for it. Experience isn’t a factor as whether you’re new at kink, or experienced, I’m happy to go at your pace and explore all the good stuff. We aren’t in a rush.

You are also somebody that is looking for a relationship based on power exchange and that isn’t only for the bedroom.

Experience isn’t a requirement, as we will be taking things as slow as you want. There isn’t any rush here to get laid.

A massive bonus would be if you shared some of my hobbies, though its in no way a requirement.

The most important thing though is that you’re genuinely interested in trying out this kind of relationship, and are open to communication.

If you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you. I look forward to getting to know all about you and what you’re looking for, and see where thing goes!