Feeling on the fence
I’m stuck at home a little under the weather and ended up scrolling back to this sub, and changed my flair from “feminist” to “on the fence.” Thinking made me realize that when I’m horny, I definitely want to be dominated by a man… but when I’m messaged by men, I don’t always feel the same. There’s this overlap I’m noticing between men who believe women should be obedient/would be happier obedient and men who can’t spell or structure sentences effectively. How can I trust that a man is right about my place if he can’t communicate that thought without me having to stop and decipher the text first? It makes me wonder if maybe misogyny is a product of a lack of education, but then I have some men who text very eloquently… so maybe not? When a man seems to have a stance he can defend, it’s almost like I feel a tug within me to just get on my knees, but if I have to feel like I’m solving a puzzle when reading a chat… well, I just get annoyed. I’m willing to give misogyny a try but I feel a little confused and think I need a little help.