Shopping?
I have several SDs I’ve been seeing for several months now. I get an agreed financial allowance per meet which I’d consider pretty fair. We typically to go dinner or a show and then spend a couple hours in a hotel or at their place.
One thing we haven’t done is SHOPPING! Does anyone have any tips on working this into your arrangement? I hate asking for things, I’ve always been so proud to be self-sufficient. I also hesitate to ask - either for them to buy me something outright or take me shopping - because I don’t really know what they’d consider reasonable. They take me to gorgeous (and expensive!) restaurants and hotels, but I don’t know if they’d baulk at the price of a Tiffany ring or a Chanel bag - and I get so embarrassed if I get told no!
I know it’s a fine line to walk and the last thing I want to do is chase them away by asking for more, since I count on the money from our dates to pay a lot of my bills.
Any and all proven tips and tricks appreciated!