u/DenseCellist2357

Please dominate me 🤤

Not too long ago, I wrote here to say that my girlfriend had broken up with me and that since then, I'd wanted to wear my chastity cage more. I found it helped me think about something other than the breakup. I managed to wear it for almost a week; I was incredibly aroused the whole time, I loved it...

A short time later, about two weeks later, my ex and I took the time to talk about our relationship. We decided to get back together, to give it another try... since she has absolutely no idea about my kinky side, the chastity cage, or my fantasies related to it, I obviously stopped wearing my cage... we don't live together, but I don't want to risk her finding out. Yes, from time to time, when I know she won't be around while I'm wearing my cage, I have fun wearing it for a day or even a night, but never for much longer. I know she's not interested in that kind of kink; in fact, she's very vanilla in bed. I enjoy our sex life, she's very attractive, and I really enjoy everything we do, but I keep having these nagging thoughts about my kinky desires. I know it's not abnormal to have these kinds of fantasies, but I'd like to feel comfortable enough to talk to her about them...

I don't know if it would be better for me to just continue a vanilla relationship with my girlfriend or if it's healthy to keep hoping to fulfill certain fantasies related to my submissive side with her, knowing I'm 99% certain she wouldn't be interested...

Maybe someday...