[Male][30][Raleigh, NC] How you guys handling scariness of std’s — let me tell you my story listen to me
Hello everyone,
I m 30 m,software engineer, love to travel and good enthusiastic person.
I came to USA when i was 21 for study and I m new to fun never been with any girl .. as you know college days and freedom and stuff in USA I am able to make 2 girls as friends eventually we become a platonic friends where we can share everything but we always keep each other safe non judgmental and having opp gender friends in that friendship were I’m I n that phase it is curiosity discussions , stress relief and we enjoyed a lot that excitement to talk about things with opp gender and safely
Eventually we ended up having sex everyday with both of them in a safe way they felt very safe with me gave me everything and I gave them the best I can in terms of taking care of them, oral for them I did everything what they asked for since both of them were feeling very safe secure discreet.. we always used protection. if I compare now with my salary I might spend my one paycheck on just only on condoms that I have used for them 😂😂😂😂
I’m 22 m that time
girls also 22 and 23
We did fun in all places of my room
Gave them eating all roles we played without hesitation.
It went well for 2 years now one girl went to India and married and other girl went to uk working over there .. we still talk over the phone from 5 years we enjoy the bonding and discuss everything whom we met and what we are doing..
The girl who went to uk, she loved one guy which is long distance relationship and had protected sex only once post Covid for 10 days(they did sex 10 days) when they meet and again they never meet after that guy went India from uk and married someone..
She had a bad break up and she never met any other guy after that .. in 2024 she gave me one more bad news she got std positive with hpv or something and she got some pimples type around vagina and back also ..
We got tested both of us other girl and me we don’t have any .. we find out that she did sex with few other random people in uk and she confessed later with depression and after that discussion with girl in 2024 I m scared to meet any other girls or any other people in USA for sexual satisfaction even though they felt safe..
I thought enough is enough I felt like it’s over now let’s start something again for fun. How you guys handling this stuff now I am more interested towards couple or girl who is looking for safe secure discreet fun .. eventually if we look for it constantly we definitely will find out I do not have any doubt it that ..
please give me suggestions how you guys enjoying this fun in safe and ddf way .. when you are meeting stranger here. Don’t you feel scared with STDs
Thanks for your time.
I’m 30 m
Will speak Telugu and English
Update on girl health.. she is doing ok now no recent outbreak .. she is doing ok.. we never met after that may be probably no more casual fun meetings with her.. even we met in future .. she accepted that life and moved on
— update after this post: we can not avoid risk may be we can find 1 safe person and limit the number of people to meet in this LS that itself is safety ..
Thanks guys now I will look for one couple or 1 female to start again ..