Ladies, should I bring up interest in anal play with wife or see how she responds in the moment?
My wife (37) and I (39) have an overnight getaway next week to celebrate our 12th wedding anniversary. We’re already getting excited and talking about it cause hotel sex is always better than at home. I want to heighten the experience with anal play on her. I’m not interested in anal sex (at least not at this time), but I want to rub, lick, and maybe even insert a finger. For backstory, my hands venture in that area often and she responds favorably. One night in particular we were both a little drunk and I did lick her ass and she was definitely leaning into it and encouraging it. Should I bring it up to her before and tell her what I want to do? Or just go in the moment and see how she responds. Alcohol will likely be involved next week which makes her extra horny. I honestly think she’s all for it just a little embarrassed to admit it because it’s a little taboo. I think she’d be all about it when she releases her inhibitions. For what it’s worth, she is has a slightly higher drive than me and we have sex about 3 times a week.