u/DreamAny9526

I’ve been sleeping with my best friends wife behind his back

My best friend has been married for over 20 years to this insanely attractive tatted-up woman that everybody envies. Like the type of couple people point at and say “goals.” Big house, kids together, vacations, matching posts on Facebook, all that picture-perfect family stuff.

And this dude has absolutely NO idea what’s been going on behind his back.

Me and him grew up together. We’re basically brothers. I’ve been to every family event, birthdays, cookouts, holidays their kids call me uncle. That’s why this whole thing is eating me alive.

About a year ago his wife randomly started messaging me more often. At first it seemed innocent. Memes, reactions to stories, jokes about getting old. Then the conversations slowly started turning personal. She’d complain about how he doesn’t pay attention to her anymore, how he works too much, how she misses feeling “wanted.”

One night she sent me a picture in a tiny tank top laying in bed asking if she still looked good for her age.

That should’ve been my warning sign.

After that it escalated FAST. Mirror pics. Videos blowing kisses. Gym selfies where she clearly knew exactly what she was doing. Sometimes she’d send stuff while sitting right next to him on the couch and he’d be completely clueless.

The craziest part is this woman looks like a straight-up fantasy. Tattoos everywhere, perfect body, always dressed good. Every dude that sees her stares. My friend acts so confident because he thinks that’s HIS woman and only his.

Whole time she was secretly obsessed with me.

I kept trying to tell myself not to cross that line because that’s my best friend and they’ve built a whole life together. But eventually one night she came onto me hard when he was out of town for work.

And yeah… we crossed the line.

Not once either.

There’s been multiple times over the last several months where she’s snuck around to see me. Every single time afterward she goes right back home acting like the perfect loyal wife. Cooking dinner, posting family pictures, sitting next to him at their kids’ events like nothing ever happened.

Meanwhile I’m sitting there knowing secrets that would completely destroy this man.

What messes with my head most is how normal he acts around me. He still calls me brother. Still trusts me around his family. Still talks about how lucky he is to have her after 20 years together.

And I swear sometimes I think she enjoys the secrecy more than anything.

Now I’m stuck living with this guilt wondering if I’m the worst friend alive or if she manipulated both of us. Either way, if the truth comes out, it’ll destroy an entire family overnight.

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u/DreamAny9526 — 10 days ago

I’ve Been Sleeping With My Best Friend’s Wife Behind His Back

My best friend has been married for over 20 years to this insanely attractive tatted-up woman that everybody envies. Like the type of couple people point at and say “goals.” Big house, kids together, vacations, matching posts on Facebook, all that picture-perfect family stuff.

And this dude has absolutely NO idea what’s been going on behind his back.

Me and him grew up together. We’re basically brothers. I’ve been to every family event, birthdays, cookouts, holidays their kids call me uncle. That’s why this whole thing is eating me alive.

About a year ago his wife randomly started messaging me more often. At first it seemed innocent. Memes, reactions to stories, jokes about getting old. Then the conversations slowly started turning personal. She’d complain about how he doesn’t pay attention to her anymore, how he works too much, how she misses feeling “wanted.”

One night she sent me a picture in a tiny tank top laying in bed asking if she still looked good for her age.

That should’ve been my warning sign.

After that it escalated FAST. Mirror pics. Videos blowing kisses. Gym selfies where she clearly knew exactly what she was doing. Sometimes she’d send stuff while sitting right next to him on the couch and he’d be completely clueless.

The craziest part is this woman looks like a straight-up fantasy. Tattoos everywhere, perfect body, always dressed good. Every dude that sees her stares. My friend acts so confident because he thinks that’s HIS woman and only his.

Whole time she was secretly obsessed with me.

I kept trying to tell myself not to cross that line because that’s my best friend and they’ve built a whole life together. But eventually one night she came onto me hard when he was out of town for work.

And yeah… we crossed the line.

Not once either.

There’s been multiple times over the last several months where she’s snuck around to see me. Every single time afterward she goes right back home acting like the perfect loyal wife. Cooking dinner, posting family pictures, sitting next to him at their kids’ events like nothing ever happened.

Meanwhile I’m sitting there knowing secrets that would completely destroy this man.

What messes with my head most is how normal he acts around me. He still calls me brother. Still trusts me around his family. Still talks about how lucky he is to have her after 20 years together.

And I swear sometimes I think she enjoys the secrecy more than anything.

Now I’m stuck living with this guilt wondering if I’m the worst friend alive or if she manipulated both of us. Either way, if the truth comes out, it’ll destroy an entire family overnight.

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u/DreamAny9526 — 10 days ago

My best friend wife always giving me blowjobs

I feel bad my best friend for over 20 years gives me head constantly behind my friends back and I feel so wrong but it feels soo good….. he works for me as well I literally will drop him off at job site and lie say I gotta go get material and than go right to his house and get head from his wife she’s so hot and tatted up he literally has no clue at all than when I go back to the job site and look him in his she’s im like man and his wife has a beautiful fat coochie like so perfect!!! Thank you guys for reading my post hope yall enjoyed it she’s soooo hot I can’t stop letting her slurp me up like a slurpee it’s insane and she’s soooo hot

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u/DreamAny9526 — 12 days ago
▲ 4 r/ohiowife+1 crossposts

I want to be forced into giving my wife to you! I want you to show me your the alpha bull make me get into panties, make me get naked and laugh at my small cock, make me hold your big dick, fuck my mouth, put your big bull balls on my face, my wife is on fence being shared but knows I am a cuck and I want to share her so start out as my buddy humiliating me while working on my wife as well!!!! Show me what a real man is

u/DreamAny9526 — 16 days ago

Yeah soo I’m a good looking male with a fat dick & it has lead me to crazy things, I’ve literally fucked all my friend’s girlfriends or we get caught it’s just never good I can’t keep any friends because I always end up sleeping with there women….. my own dad I slept with his wife literally my siblings mother my stepmom my own cousins I’ve been with…. I had a girlfriend I slept with her sister her cousins & her mom it’s like one minute I meet them than they are throwing there selfs at me welp this one really hurts me lately is my own brother we have different dads same mom & I just feel so bad he sends me over there go get my clothes and stuff we are fighting I go over there & his wife is throwing me on the couch blowing me, giving me head he called me and was like don’t forget my fan while you are there, & he’s literally crying and his heart in a bunch and she’s literally going to town on me….. I remember I had a 4some

With both my brothers wife’s & my stepmom it’s crazy they all know we all went to the store they was like have me go with them so I can carry groceries we all was cooking out we go to a nearby hotel my stepmom buys the room we head up it just was crazy I’m fucking my stepmom her face is in both my brothers wife’s pussys vice versa just felt so good but wrong than we to back they are like man what took forever & im like nothing at all looking them all in the face after what I did to thier wife’s one of my brothers wife named his child after me…. & his wife told me she did it because I own her pussy do you understand I own my brothers wife’s pussy

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u/DreamAny9526 — 17 days ago
▲ 55 r/hotwifelovers+1 crossposts

Basically come hangout! If you are an out of town bull you must have your own travel & hotel… basically I need a confident bull who can come over as my buddy hangout feel it out meet my wife I’ll say old coworker she has cheated on me before but I’ve never seen videos or anything I want someone basically show me the videos record it…. I’ll set it up for you perfect if we are drinking hanging out I’ll pass out upstairs leave you guys alone I’ll let you stay the night whatever is needed I’ll get into a fight with her and leave to a hotel whatever to get her to cheat again but I get to see it

u/DreamAny9526 — 17 days ago
▲ 22 r/CuckoldWifeClub+2 crossposts

Dynamic -

I’m not confused about what I am — I’m a cuck, and I’m looking for a real bull who understands that role without needing it explained step by step.

This isn’t something I want rushed. I’m looking for a man who enjoys the long game — someone who’s willing to build this over weeks or even months. Becoming part of our lives, not just showing up for a one-time situation. I want a presence, not a performance.

You’d start off as a friend. Coming around, hanging out, getting comfortable with both of us. But the difference is… you already know where it’s going. You don’t force it — you guide it. Slowly stepping into that role where your energy starts to shift the dynamic between me and my wife.

I want the kind of guy who isn’t afraid to flirt with her right in front of me. Confident enough to compliment her, hold eye contact a little longer than normal, and let that tension sit in the air. The type where she starts responding to you naturally — not because it’s planned, but because your presence pulls it out of her.

Like if she mentions wanting to better herself — going to the gym, doing squats, improving her body — you don’t just nod along. You step in.

“You already look amazing, but I can help you with that… why hasn’t he been helping you?”

Now you’re inserting yourself. Offering to come over, guide her, take control of that situation. Maybe I’m there, maybe I’m not — but either way, you’re leading it. You might even throw me into the mix just to establish control… or make it clear I’m not the one she should be looking to.

I want that slow shift where you naturally start taking my place in certain ways. Not announced — just understood. Where I can feel that I’m not the one in control anymore, and you are.

There should be moments where you test that power. Telling me to run out and grab something. Giving small instructions. Taking up space like it’s yours without asking. And I follow it — because that’s the dynamic.

Behind closed doors, I want that same energy to carry over. Where you and her build your own connection, your own chemistry, and I’m not part of that center anymore. Where it’s understood that if I leave, things don’t stop — they progress.

I’m looking for a man who reads people well. Someone who can sense that submissive/cuck energy in me and lean into it naturally. Not over-the-top, not forced — just dominant in a way that’s real.

Confidence is everything. The kind that shows in how you talk, how you carry yourself, how you look at her. A presence that makes it obvious you’re a man she would be drawn to without needing to say it out loud.

This is about building something with the right person. A dynamic that grows, evolves, and becomes second nature over time.

u/DreamAny9526 — 18 days ago

Dynamic -

I’m not confused about what I am — I’m a cuck, and I’m looking for a real bull who understands that role without needing it explained step by step.

This isn’t something I want rushed. I’m looking for a man who enjoys the long game — someone who’s willing to build this over weeks or even months. Becoming part of our lives, not just showing up for a one-time situation. I want a presence, not a performance.

You’d start off as a friend. Coming around, hanging out, getting comfortable with both of us. But the difference is… you already know where it’s going. You don’t force it — you guide it. Slowly stepping into that role where your energy starts to shift the dynamic between me and my wife.

I want the kind of guy who isn’t afraid to flirt with her right in front of me. Confident enough to compliment her, hold eye contact a little longer than normal, and let that tension sit in the air. The type where she starts responding to you naturally — not because it’s planned, but because your presence pulls it out of her.

Like if she mentions wanting to better herself — going to the gym, doing squats, improving her body — you don’t just nod along. You step in.

“You already look amazing, but I can help you with that… why hasn’t he been helping you?”

Now you’re inserting yourself. Offering to come over, guide her, take control of that situation. Maybe I’m there, maybe I’m not — but either way, you’re leading it. You might even throw me into the mix just to establish control… or make it clear I’m not the one she should be looking to.

I want that slow shift where you naturally start taking my place in certain ways. Not announced — just understood. Where I can feel that I’m not the one in control anymore, and you are.

There should be moments where you test that power. Telling me to run out and grab something. Giving small instructions. Taking up space like it’s yours without asking. And I follow it — because that’s the dynamic.

Behind closed doors, I want that same energy to carry over. Where you and her build your own connection, your own chemistry, and I’m not part of that center anymore. Where it’s understood that if I leave, things don’t stop — they progress.

I’m looking for a man who reads people well. Someone who can sense that submissive/cuck energy in me and lean into it naturally. Not over-the-top, not forced — just dominant in a way that’s real.

Confidence is everything. The kind that shows in how you talk, how you carry yourself, how you look at her. A presence that makes it obvious you’re a man she would be drawn to without needing to say it out loud.

This is about building something long-term with the right person. A dynamic that grows, evolves, and becomes second nature over time.

What I’m looking for:

• A confident, dominant, well-endowed man who naturally fits the “bull” role

• Well endowed is important — above average size preferred, larger testicles a plus

• Physically takes care of himself — clean, put-together, good hygiene

• Strong presence and personality — not passive or unsure

• Financially stable — someone who can take initiative, plan things, take us out, spoil her a bit, and enjoy providing experiences

• Generous mindset — enjoys giving, leading, and treating a woman right

• Clean-cut look preferred (no overly long hair)

• Circumcised preferred (not a dealbreaker, but a plus)

• Someone who understands long-term dynamics, not just quick situations

u/DreamAny9526 — 21 days ago

Dynamic -

I’m not confused about what I am — I’m a cuck, and I’m looking for a real bull who understands that role without needing it explained step by step.

This isn’t something I want rushed. I’m looking for a man who enjoys the long game — someone who’s willing to build this over weeks or even months. Becoming part of our lives, not just showing up for a one-time situation. I want a presence, not a performance.

You’d start off as a friend. Coming around, hanging out, getting comfortable with both of us. But the difference is… you already know where it’s going. You don’t force it — you guide it. Slowly stepping into that role where your energy starts to shift the dynamic between me and my wife.

I want the kind of guy who isn’t afraid to flirt with her right in front of me. Confident enough to compliment her, hold eye contact a little longer than normal, and let that tension sit in the air. The type where she starts responding to you naturally — not because it’s planned, but because your presence pulls it out of her.

Like if she mentions wanting to better herself — going to the gym, doing squats, improving her body — you don’t just nod along. You step in.

“You already look amazing, but I can help you with that… why hasn’t he been helping you?”

Now you’re inserting yourself. Offering to come over, guide her, take control of that situation. Maybe I’m there, maybe I’m not — but either way, you’re leading it. You might even throw me into the mix just to establish control… or make it clear I’m not the one she should be looking to.

I want that slow shift where you naturally start taking my place in certain ways. Not announced — just understood. Where I can feel that I’m not the one in control anymore, and you are.

There should be moments where you test that power. Telling me to run out and grab something. Giving small instructions. Taking up space like it’s yours without asking. And I follow it — because that’s the dynamic.

Behind closed doors, I want that same energy to carry over. Where you and her build your own connection, your own chemistry, and I’m not part of that center anymore. Where it’s understood that if I leave, things don’t stop — they progress.

I’m looking for a man who reads people well. Someone who can sense that submissive/cuck energy in me and lean into it naturally. Not over-the-top, not forced — just dominant in a way that’s real.

Confidence is everything. The kind that shows in how you talk, how you carry yourself, how you look at her. A presence that makes it obvious you’re a man she would be drawn to without needing to say it out loud.

This is about building something long-term with the right person. A dynamic that grows, evolves, and becomes second nature over time.

What I’m looking for:

• A confident, dominant, well-endowed man who naturally fits the “bull” role

• Well endowed is important — above average size preferred, larger testicles a plus

• Physically takes care of himself — clean, put-together, good hygiene

• Strong presence and personality — not passive or unsure

• Financially stable — someone who can take initiative, plan things, take us out, spoil her a bit, and enjoy providing experiences

• Generous mindset — enjoys giving, leading, and treating a woman right

• Clean-cut look preferred (no overly long hair)

• Circumcised preferred (not a dealbreaker, but a plus)

• Someone who understands long-term dynamics, not just quick situations

u/DreamAny9526 — 21 days ago

Dynamic -

I’m not confused about what I am — I’m a cuck, and I’m looking for a real bull who understands that role without needing it explained step by step.

This isn’t something I want rushed. I’m looking for a man who enjoys the long game — someone who’s willing to build this over weeks or even months. Becoming part of our lives, not just showing up for a one-time situation. I want a presence, not a performance.

You’d start off as a friend. Coming around, hanging out, getting comfortable with both of us. But the difference is… you already know where it’s going. You don’t force it — you guide it. Slowly stepping into that role where your energy starts to shift the dynamic between me and my wife.

I want the kind of guy who isn’t afraid to flirt with her right in front of me. Confident enough to compliment her, hold eye contact a little longer than normal, and let that tension sit in the air. The type where she starts responding to you naturally — not because it’s planned, but because your presence pulls it out of her.

Like if she mentions wanting to better herself — going to the gym, doing squats, improving her body — you don’t just nod along. You step in.

“You already look amazing, but I can help you with that… why hasn’t he been helping you?”

Now you’re inserting yourself. Offering to come over, guide her, take control of that situation. Maybe I’m there, maybe I’m not — but either way, you’re leading it. You might even throw me into the mix just to establish control… or make it clear I’m not the one she should be looking to.

I want that slow shift where you naturally start taking my place in certain ways. Not announced — just understood. Where I can feel that I’m not the one in control anymore, and you are.

There should be moments where you test that power. Telling me to run out and grab something. Giving small instructions. Taking up space like it’s yours without asking. And I follow it — because that’s the dynamic.

Behind closed doors, I want that same energy to carry over. Where you and her build your own connection, your own chemistry, and I’m not part of that center anymore. Where it’s understood that if I leave, things don’t stop — they progress.

I’m looking for a man who reads people well. Someone who can sense that submissive/cuck energy in me and lean into it naturally. Not over-the-top, not forced — just dominant in a way that’s real.

Confidence is everything. The kind that shows in how you talk, how you carry yourself, how you look at her. A presence that makes it obvious you’re a man she would be drawn to without needing to say it out loud.

This is about building something long-term with the right person. A dynamic that grows, evolves, and becomes second nature over time.

What I’m looking for:

• A confident, dominant, well-endowed man who naturally fits the “bull” role

• Well endowed is important — above average size preferred, larger testicles a plus

• Physically takes care of himself — clean, put-together, good hygiene

• Strong presence and personality — not passive or unsure

• Financially stable — someone who can take initiative, plan things, take us out, spoil her a bit, and enjoy providing experiences

• Generous mindset — enjoys giving, leading, and treating a woman right

• Clean-cut look preferred (no overly long hair)

• Circumcised preferred (not a dealbreaker, but a plus)

• Someone who understands long-term dynamics, not just quick situations

Thank you guys! Take care

u/DreamAny9526 — 23 days ago

Dynamic -

I’m not confused about what I am — I’m a cuck, and I’m looking for a real bull who understands that role without needing it explained step by step.

This isn’t something I want rushed. I’m looking for a man who enjoys the long game — someone who’s willing to build this over weeks or even months. Becoming part of our lives, not just showing up for a one-time situation. I want a presence, not a performance.

You’d start off as a friend. Coming around, hanging out, getting comfortable with both of us. But the difference is… you already know where it’s going. You don’t force it — you guide it. Slowly stepping into that role where your energy starts to shift the dynamic between me and my wife.

I want the kind of guy who isn’t afraid to flirt with her right in front of me. Confident enough to compliment her, hold eye contact a little longer than normal, and let that tension sit in the air. The type where she starts responding to you naturally — not because it’s planned, but because your presence pulls it out of her.

Like if she mentions wanting to better herself — going to the gym, doing squats, improving her body — you don’t just nod along. You step in.

“You already look amazing, but I can help you with that… why hasn’t he been helping you?”

Now you’re inserting yourself. Offering to come over, guide her, take control of that situation. Maybe I’m there, maybe I’m not — but either way, you’re leading it. You might even throw me into the mix just to establish control… or make it clear I’m not the one she should be looking to.

I want that slow shift where you naturally start taking my place in certain ways. Not announced — just understood. Where I can feel that I’m not the one in control anymore, and you are.

There should be moments where you test that power. Telling me to run out and grab something. Giving small instructions. Taking up space like it’s yours without asking. And I follow it — because that’s the dynamic.

Behind closed doors, I want that same energy to carry over. Where you and her build your own connection, your own chemistry, and I’m not part of that center anymore. Where it’s understood that if I leave, things don’t stop — they progress.

I’m looking for a man who reads people well. Someone who can sense that submissive/cuck energy in me and lean into it naturally. Not over-the-top, not forced — just dominant in a way that’s real.

Confidence is everything. The kind that shows in how you talk, how you carry yourself, how you look at her. A presence that makes it obvious you’re a man she would be drawn to without needing to say it out loud.

This is about building something long-term with the right person. A dynamic that grows, evolves, and becomes second nature over time.

What I’m looking for:

• A confident, dominant, well-endowed man who naturally fits the “bull” role

• Well endowed is important — above average size preferred, larger testicles a plus

• Physically takes care of himself — clean, put-together, good hygiene

• Strong presence and personality — not passive or unsure

• Financially stable — someone who can take initiative, plan things, take us out, spoil her a bit, and enjoy providing experiences

• Generous mindset — enjoys giving, leading, and treating a woman right

• Clean-cut look preferred (no overly long hair)

• Circumcised preferred (not a dealbreaker, but a plus)

• Someone who understands long-term dynamics, not just quick situations

u/DreamAny9526 — 26 days ago