▲ 5 r/TopsAndBottoms
Did any of you start out "just liking gay porn" but think you weren't gay - and now you're dating men?
Is this a common thing?
u/Educational-Rock-881 — 4 days ago
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▲ 23 r/TopsAndBottoms
Before you guys accepted being gay were you ever stuck in a pattern of - watch gay porn - pretend it never happened - then a couple days later back looking at men?
Is this just a cycle that guys in denial have?
u/Educational-Rock-881 — 7 days ago
▲ 6 r/TopsAndBottoms
Guys who came out later but always wanted men - what was it like to get that first D in your hands?
Did your mind go blank and instinct take over? If you had been with women, was it similar?
u/Educational-Rock-881 — 7 days ago
▲ 55 r/AskGayMen
How many of you here thought watching gay porn was just a "kink" or a "fetish" for years before finally accepting it?
I've dated women but despite a few long term relationships it's never worked out. I've always had terrible performance anxiety - and it prbly doesnt help that I've watched gay porn for as long as I can remember and the last few years its become all I watch. Am just another one of those dudes who was too dumb to realize
u/Educational-Rock-881 — 7 days ago
▲ 9 r/TopsAndBottoms
Are there guys out there whose main turn on about being gay is the emasculation of it?
I'm not saying being gay is emasculating, but are there guys out there who view it that way and get off on it?
u/Educational-Rock-881 — 8 days ago
▲ 7 r/TopsAndBottoms
Did you ever think you were straight but had "performance anxiety" then realize you were just gay?
Asking the guys who tried dating women - did you have times when you struggled to get it up and thought it was just anxiety - then realize you just needed men? Did you have any idea? Did it go away entirely with men?
u/Educational-Rock-881 — 8 days ago