I’m 67 and wife is 70. Due to spinal surgeries and ED it’s not always easy to stay hard to penetrate. so we have learned to improvise. like planned sex every Sunday.
I typically give her a full body massage. shes a bbw and not comfortable getting a massage elsewhere. I tease her along the way. At least one Sunday a month I take out her toy bag when I know she’s hot and ready to cum.
She turns it up high and puts it right in her clit and moves it around. It’s so erotic for me. I squeeze her big tits with one hand and masturbate with the other. We tend to cum about the same time.
Sometimes I don’t finish when she does. So I lay next her, put my left arm over her so I am hugging her and with my right hand I jerk off and cum while she watches. She never said she liked to watch until recently.