u/Effective-Story-8554

Hello, I decided to use a non-phallic dildo for the first time. I have been using glass dilators, and silicone buttplugs for many months. However when I decided to try a dildo I noticed it was really uncomfortable and there was a large amount of friction, regardless of the amount of lube.

Yes I was relaxed, I could even fit a dilator 2x the width of the dildo before using it. Yes i used enough lube, I actually went through 1/4 of my lube trying to use it. But to no avail.

in case this is important it is a silicone dildo (Adam and Eve Wonder 6.5"), water-based anal lube obviously.

Has this happen to anyone else and how did you remedy it? Is it simply a toy mismatch and if so what would you recommend?

Thanks