Solo play help
Hey, so I’m a straight guy and my ex originally introduced me to into prostate play. She used to always ask me to finger my ass and I used to think it was weird. But eventually I let her, and I never looked back. We started doing it all the time, sometimes we would just kiss and she would finger my ass and make me cum. Other time she would give me head and finger my ass. Anyway we broke up a year ago. And…. I really miss those orgasms. I never really even spoke to her about it, why it was so good. I assume she was massaging my prostate? Whatever she did was amazing. I’ve since fingered my ass and it just feels a bit weird. I’ve tried to use an old toy I had as well and I was just too tight. And yeah I used some lube. I remember she used to be able to get a few fingers in, but now I struggle with 1. Does it tighten up over time?
But back to the point, what’s the best way for me to explore? I’d like to feel these orgasms again without needing a partner to do it. Because there’s no say that my next partner will be into this sort of thing.
Any comments appreciated. Also if anyone wants to dm me that’s fine as well :)