22 [M4F] #Hertfordshire/UK- Nerdy guy looking for my kinky childfree life partner for a D/s relationship aged 18-22 (I’m open to relocating)
This post is likely going to be quite long so please bear with me! Please make sure that you’ve read it all before you reach out, if you decide to. If you think we’re a good match then please don’t hesitate to send me a chat and tell me a bit about yourself just like I’ve done here, I can’t wait to hear from you! (Please only reach out if you’re serious about wanting a relationship)
A bit about Me:
I'm 22 and live just outside of London in the UK.
I'm childfree by choice and plan to get a vasectomy at some point in the future, I’m not sure when exactly I’ll get around to it but ideally sooner rather than later. Once I'm sterile, I'll be getting it tested every six months to be safe.
I'm 5'10 or 178 cm.
Right now I work in a pub and I’ve been there for a few months, I enjoy it most of the time and it works for me right now while I’m just trying to save a bit. I have a Computer Science degree, and my long-term goal is to be a software engineer, currently when I have time I try to just keep my programming skills fresh although it’s not a huge focus right now however it will soon be because my goal is to be ready to start seriously job searching for my first career job by the end of the year at the latest, I’m under no illusion though that it’ll be quick or easy as the job market right now is frankly awful. I would not consider myself very career-oriented; while I want to do well for myself, I definitely value work-life balance the most.
I'm neurodivergent and quite introverted. I definitely value my quiet time, although I can be quite outgoing as well around the right people. I'd say I'm quite laid back and I have very little tolerance for things like yelling when it comes to a relationship at least so I'd like to say I'm good at communicating and working things out.
I'm financially literate and responsible, I hope to eventually retire early in the future.
I'm not religious.
I like to travel. I’ve been to seven countries so far, mostly in Europe but I’ve also been to the US, I like backpacking and travelling like that but I also enjoy more relaxing holidays as well, I want to travel all over the world in future, Japan, South East Asia, France, Greece, Italy, Australia and New Zealand, just everywhere really.
My long term goal is to live in a big city in the UK, I’m not necessarily picky on which city it just has to have a decent job market for tech.
NSFW wise, I have a very high sex drive and am definitely on the dominant side when it comes to my sexuality. To be completely honest I’m not very experienced like I am a virgin for example although I do have experience with some other things. I do have a range of kinks that I enjoy, some that I have experience with and others that I want to try. Specific things I'm into, which I have experience with, are facefucking, throatpies, facials and rimming (both giving and receiving), I like a bit of spanking too. Things I don't have experience with but want to try are anal, cockwarming etc. in terms of the relationship dynamic I’m looking for a D/s style dynamic albeit not a very strict one or anything like that.
I'm very affectionate. I can't get enough of cuddles, I'll absolutely tell you I love you constantly, compliment you, etc.
I’m very nerdy overall, I’m a big gamer although I did lose interest in it for a few years I’m fully back into it now, I’m a console gamer, I did have a PS5 for a long time but I sold it last year which I do now regret and would like to get another one at some point, at the moment I just play on my old PS4. I’m mostly into single player games at this point, I love open world games and RPGs and just anything with a good story in general, my favourite game series is Yakuza or Like a Dragon, I’m currently playing Ishin which is the samurai spin off of Yakuza and I’m massively enjoying it. I’m a big trophy hunter as well, I currently have about 60 platinum trophies. Outside of gaming I’m a big Star Wars fan although I haven’t been keeping up with the shows so I do have a lot to catch up on, I also love horror movies as well.
I would like to get married eventually; however, I absolutely do not want to have a wedding. I know that's a bit forward to say right away, but I just want to make sure I'm not wasting anyone's time if that's something that's important to them.
What I'm Looking For:
You're 18-22 years old and live in the UK and want to live in a bigger city in the future if you don’t already live in one.
You're firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you’ve been sterilised or want to in the future that is a big plus but it's not a hard requirement.
You want to travel the world with me in the future.
I'm open to people of many different body types, I’d say I’m definitely an ass guy.
You are not very family oriented.
You are not religious.
You don't smoke or take drugs.
You, just like me, have a very high sex drive, are submissive and open minded in general, it doesn’t matter if you have any experience or not, just that you’re open to exploring with me and having a good time in general. You want a D/s style dynamic as well.
Ideally, you're also introverted like me.
If you have some nerdy interests that’s definitely a plus.
If you’re neurodivergent as well that’s something we could connect on but it doesn’t matter at all if you’re not.
Like me, you're want to get married in the future but don't want a wedding/don't care about having one.
You have a calm personality and are a good communicator, as I said before I really do not like yelling in relationships so I'm looking for the type of relationship where we can just discuss everything calmly and work things out if we have an issue.
You are also a very affectionate person.
You're financially literate or are open to learning so that we can work on retiring early together.