u/ElectionDizzy7853

DMV = Washington DC

I’m 39 and I’m looking up switch it up. I’m not meeting great folks on the apps so trying this.

I work in tech and I do well for myself. Not a billionaire, not close, but I have an apartment in a the city, a house near the beach, and I don't worry about money. I’m white 6'0", 190, in the gym three times a week. I'm not the best looking guy but I've never had a problem meeting girls. The problem has been meeting the right one.

I had a pretty major health scare in my early 20's which put things in perspective. So at the time I wasn't ready settle down, and didn't need to. Now I am.

My mom died young a couple years ago, sudden and unexpected. The thing I regret most is not having kids while she was still here. That's a big part of why I'm done waiting around. I want a real partnership and I want a family. Soon.

I'm normal. Been in serious relationships, have a small circle of good friends, and a thirteen year old dog. I read a lot, mostly history and politics. I'm direct, I don't play games, and I'd rather meet for a drink than text in circles for a month.

Looking for a girl 21 to 30. Fit, takes care of herself. Wants kids and a real relationship. Has her own life. I'm well off enough that you don't have to work if you don't want to, but I'd much prefer somebody who does.

Honestly, the women my age I keep meeting are either so career focused there's no room for a relationship, or have something going on that makes one too hard. I'm not looking to fix anyone. I just want something real with someone who actually wants the same thing.

If this lands, send me a message. Tell me a little about you, what you're actually looking for, and one thing you're into right now. I'll respond if it sounds like there's something there.

I'm 39 and the apps aren't working. They're not getting me where I want to go, so I'm trying this instead.

I work in tech and I do well for myself. Not a billionaire, not close, but I have an apartment in a Mid-Atlantic city, a house near the beach, and I don't worry about money. 6'0", 198, in the gym three times a week. I'm not the best looking guy but I've never had a problem meeting girls. The problem has been meeting the right one.

I had a pretty major health scare in my early 20's which put things in perspective. So at the time I wasn't ready settle down, and didn't need to. Now I am.

My mom died young a couple years ago, sudden and unexpected. The thing I regret most is not having kids while she was still here. That's a big part of why I'm done waiting around. I want a real partnership and I want a family. Soon.

I'm normal. Been in serious relationships, have a small circle of good friends, and a thirteen year old border terrier named Mindy who I love. I read a lot, mostly history and politics. I'm direct, I don't play games, and I'd rather meet for a drink than text in circles for a month.

Looking for a girl 21 to 30. Fit, takes care of herself. Wants kids and a real relationship. Has her own life. I'm well off enough that you don't have to work if you don't want to, but I'd much prefer somebody who does.

Honestly, the women my age I keep meeting are either so career focused there's no room for a relationship, or have something going on that makes one too hard. I'm not looking to fix anyone. I just want something real with someone who actually wants the same thing.

If this lands, send me a message. Tell me a little about you, what you're actually looking for, and one thing you're into right now. I'll respond if it sounds like there's something there.