u/Embarrassed_Load2264

Happy Sunny Friday!

I'm putting myself out there to find someone to chat with. Ideally you would be from the north although I do travel to London on occasion.

I work from home most of the time as an IT nerd and so life can get a little lonely so if you can keep me company during the day too that would be amazing.

When not working I enjoy cycling and walking and using those to get it into the countryside along with walking to mainly switch off from all the goes on in the modern world and also as some exercise and to keep the body going. It would be great if you would like to come with me!

I enjoy watching Formula 1 and looking forward to Canada this weekend! Football and cricket, outside of sport I am interested in various technology and engineering topics and can also spend time falling down the rabbit hole that is Wikipedia.

It's tagged NSFW as I am open to that type of conversation as we go on but I am looking for more than just that. I want to get to know you in all ways.

If you have found any of this appealing then don't hesitate to send me a message.

Hello and good morning, first and foremost I would like to thank you in advance for taking the time to read my personal ad. 

About Me:

I am a 41 year old guy currently living in Yorkshire, I am 5ft11 tall and well currently a bit of a cuddly bear and working in myself at present flowing a tough couple of years which I am finally over. I have blond hair and blue eyes with varying amounts of facial hair depending on my mood. 

I am employed full time and lead a team of people in my day to day life and fully functioning adult. That's not to say I haven't had MH issues in the past but I think that is something of strength to admit and more men should talk about it. I can be fun and playful at the right time but also know when I need to be serious.

I do invest a far amount of time in learning more about my chosen field within my own time to better my understandong and be on that constant road of career improvement. I enjoy having various side projects usually of the electronic, software or DIY nature that I work on to keep me busy. I enjoy getting out into the countryside and enjoying nature and being able to switch off from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Now I previous was more involved in fitness activities before the event which caused me to put on weight and it's something I'm taking small steps to get back into. But I do also enjoy a quiet evening in with some good food and a film so a mix of both worlds would be ideal.

So the perfect domme for me:

Age wise I would say maybe +-10 years or so of my age. Mature enough that we can have adult conversations but still young enough that we can be a bit silly in life still. 

In terms of your body shape and features I wouldn't say I particularly have a type. If you are taller and could physically overpower me then that would be very hot but also if you were petite and just have me submit to you then again, hot! 

As for location I have listed the Yorkshire here I'm happy to talk online and get to know each other first and then I can travel to meet you half way or something at first and then we could work out what else. Possibly this could expand into Europe although as to how that would work long term we would need to see. Online may well work as well from other parts of the world however I would ideally like this to become in person.

It would be great if you were a good communicator, in recent years the one word response appears to have become all too common and I would much prefer deep and meaningful conversations along with the silly. Ideally you are loyal and honest, appear to have a heart of gold but a very twisted mind.

As for your style of domination this is something that is still very new to me. Previously I have taken on a more dominant role to please partners but really that was not a natural position for me and that role really I spent all my time focussing on their pleasure and not mine.

I would imagine more of a softer gentle domme. I do love affection from another person and return it in the same quantities. Guide me and slowly shape me into what you see as the ideal sub. Me be someone you are proud of as a partner.

From submissive kink point of view I would probably say they line up with the above softer side with you teasing me and yourself, edging me and denying me although not long term denial, I would be interested in shorter term chastity, I have played with anal plugs before and happy to continue with those or you might have an interest in taking that further, as part of teasing me if you want to add restraints then that is something I would be willing to explore too. Obviously here theae things are not all required and if you have specific interests too then we could discuss those and they could well be added into the mix.

I had had some previous dominant experience and if you do want to switch then I am open to incorporating that into any dynamic which we form.

With a lot of this I am open minded but there are limits I have which are mainly along the lines of permanent marking, body fluids of all types and anything illegal.

I hope this post has come across ok. If you have any questions or it sounds good to you then I do hope to hear from you.

Hello and good morning, first and foremost I would like to thank you in advance for taking the time to read my personal ad. 

About Me:

I am a 41 year old guy currently living in Yorkshire, I am 5ft11 tall and well currently a bit of a cuddly bear and working in myself at present flowing a tough couple of years which I am finally over. I have blond hair and blue eyes with varying amounts of facial hair depending on my mood. 

I am employed full time and lead a team of people in my day to day life and fully functioning adult. That's not to say I haven't had MH issues in the past but I think that is something of strength to admit and more men should talk about it. I can be fun and playful at the right time but also know when I need to be serious.

I do invest a far amount of time in learning more about my chosen field within my own time to better my understandong and be on that constant road of career improvement. I enjoy having various side projects usually of the electronic, software or DIY nature that I work on to keep me busy. I enjoy getting out into the countryside and enjoying nature and being able to switch off from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Now I previous was more involved in fitness activities before the event which caused me to put on weight and it's something I'm taking small steps to get back into. But I do also enjoy a quiet evening in with some good food and a film so a mix of both worlds would be ideal.

So the perfect domme for me:

Age wise I would say maybe +-10 years or so of my age. Mature enough that we can have adult conversations but still young enough that we can be a bit silly in life still. 

In terms of your body shape and features I wouldn't say I particularly have a type. If you are taller and could physically overpower me then that would be very hot but also if you were petite and just have me submit to you then again, hot! 

As for location I have listed the Yorkshire here I'm happy to talk online and get to know each other first and then I can travel to meet you half way or something at first and then we could work out what else. Possibly this could expand into Europe although as to how that would work long term we would need to see. Online may well work as well from other parts of the world however I would ideally like this to become in person.

It would be great if you were a good communicator, in recent years the one word response appears to have become all too common and I would much prefer deep and meaningful conversations along with the silly. Ideally you are loyal and honest, appear to have a heart of gold but a very twisted mind.

As for your style of domination this is something that is still very new to me. Previously I have taken on a more dominant role to please partners but really that was not a natural position for me and that role really I spent all my time focussing on their pleasure and not mine.

I would imagine more of a softer gentle domme. I do love affection from another person and return it in the same quantities. Guide me and slowly shape me into what you see as the ideal sub. Me be someone you are proud of as a partner.

From submissive kink point of view I would probably say they line up with the above softer side with you teasing me and yourself, edging me and denying me although not long term denial, I would be interested in shorter term chastity, I have played with anal plugs before and happy to continue with those or you might have an interest in taking that further, as part of teasing me if you want to add restraints then that is something I would be willing to explore too. Obviously here theae things are not all required and if you have specific interests too then we could discuss those and they could well be added into the mix.

I had had some previous dominant experience and if you do want to switch then I am open to incorporating that into any dynamic which we form.

With a lot of this I am open minded but there are limits I have which are mainly along the lines of permanent marking, body fluids of all types and anything illegal.

I hope this post has come across ok. If you have any questions or it sounds good to you then I do hope to hear from you.

Hello and good morning, first and foremost I would like to thank you in advance for taking the time to read my personal ad. 

About Me:

I am a 41 year old guy currently living in Northern England, I am 5ft11 tall and well currently a bit of a cuddly bear and working in myself at present flowing a tough couple of years which I am finally over. I have blond hair and blue eyes with varying amounts of facial hair depending on my mood. 

I am employed full time and lead a team of people in my day to day life and fully functioning adult. That's not to say I haven't had MH issues in the past but I think that is something of strength to admit and more men should talk about it. I can be fun and playful at the right time but also know when I need to be serious.

I do invest a far amount of time in learning more about my chosen field within my own time to better my understandong and be on that constant road of career improvement. I enjoy having various side projects usually of the electronic, software or DIY nature that I work on to keep me busy. I enjoy getting out into the countryside and enjoying nature and being able to switch off from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. Now I previous was more involved in fitness activities before the event which caused me to put on weight and it's something I'm taking small steps to get back into. But I do also enjoy a quiet evening in with some good food and a film so a mix of both worlds would be ideal.

So the perfect domme for me:

Age wise I would say maybe +-10 years or so of my age. Mature enough that we can have adult conversations but still young enough that we can be a bit silly in life still. 

In terms of your body shape and features I wouldn't say I particularly have a type. If you are taller and could physically overpower me then that would be very hot but also if you were petite and just have me submit to you then again, hot! 

As for location I have listed the UK here I'm happy to talk online and get to know each other first and then I can travel to meet you half way or something at first and then we could work out what else. Possibly this could expand into Europe although as to how that would work long term we would need to see. Online may well work as well from other parts of the world however I would ideally like this to become in person.

It would be great if you were a good communicator, in recent years the one word response appears to have become all too common and I would much prefer deep and meaningful conversations along with the silly. Ideally you are loyal and honest, appear to have a heart of gold but a very twisted mind.

As for your style of domination this is something that is still very new to me. Previously I have taken on a more dominant role to please partners but really that was not a natural position for me and that role really I spent all my time focussing on their pleasure and not mine.

I would imagine more of a softer gentle domme. I do love affection from another person and return it in the same quantities. Guide me and slowly shape me into what you see as the ideal sub. Me be someone you are proud of as a partner.

From submissive kink point of view I would probably say they line up with the above softer side with you teasing me and yourself, edging me and denying me although not long term denial, I would be interested in shorter term chastity, I have played with anal plugs before and happy to continue with those or you might have an interest in taking that further, as part of teasing me if you want to add restraints then that is something I would be willing to explore too. Obviously here theae things are not all required and if you have specific interests too then we could discuss those and they could well be added into the mix.

I had had some previous dominant experience and if you do want to switch then I am open to incorporating that into any dynamic which we form.

With a lot of this I am open minded but there are limits I have which are mainly along the lines of permanent marking, body fluids of all types and anything illegal.

I hope this post has come across ok. If you have any questions or it sounds good to you then I do hope to hear from you.