Just got a fleshlight, this is how I’m using it
28 M - I have super rough hands, from playing guitar and lifting weights, masturbation with my hands is really not enjoyable at all to me.
I was hesitant to get a fleshlight for so long because I thought it would make me a loser.
Honestly I don’t know why I waited so long, orgasms are 100xs more intense, (does not replace the real thing ofc) but know honestly I’m mad at myself for being afraid of what other people thought, I probably could have avoided having a lot of bad one night stands with people that I was not physically attracted to at all.
I’ve noticed it makes me very sleepy after using it, just like having actual sex lol.
If anyone here is into weight lifting and athletic training, I’ve found it to be an excellent tool to use to unwind, the quality of my sleep has actually drastically improved.
lol but just wanted to share this to say, don’t let social stigmas hold you back. Just Be kind and treat people with respect.