u/Emotional_Poet_2810

Is deepthroating pleasurable for men? Never asked him for feedback, virgin giving bj for the first time

Before I get into this, I’m a virgin and had never done anything sexual with someone before meeting him, so I genuinely had no idea what I was doing. I never asked for feedback afterward either, so now I’m overthinking whether I actually did okay.

I mostly focused on kissing and licking around the tip at first and gently swirling my tongue around it. Then eventually I started taking him all in and started deepthroating, it went faster and sloppier as things progressed until he finished. He was groaning A LOT, especially when I deepthroated, so I assumed that was a good sign? But there was one moment where he suddenly said “ouch,” and now that part keeps replaying in my head because I can’t tell if I accidentally used too much teeth or if deepthroating can sometimes hurt for men too.

I did give him a blowjob thrice though as he would ask me to get him off everytime we woke up in the middle of the night, so I guess it couldn’t have been terrible? I just genuinely don’t know what actually feels best for guys or if deepthroating is pleasurable or uncomfortable for them.

Was I probably doing something wrong? I need advice on how to give a better bj

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u/Emotional_Poet_2810 — 2 days ago

Virgin giving bj for the first time - how to give better bj? Is deepthroating pleasurable?

Before I get into this, I’m a virgin and had never done anything sexual with someone before meeting him, so I genuinely had no idea what I was doing. I never asked for feedback afterward either, so now I’m overthinking whether I actually did okay.

I mostly focused on kissing and licking around the tip at first and gently swirling my tongue around it. Then eventually I started taking him all in and started deepthroating, it went faster and sloppier as things progressed until he finished. He was groaning A LOT, especially when I deepthroated, so I assumed that was a good sign? But there was one moment where he suddenly said “ouch,” and now that part keeps replaying in my head because I can’t tell if I accidentally used too much teeth or if deepthroating can sometimes hurt for men too.

I did give him a blowjob thrice though as he would ask me to get him off everytime we woke up in the middle of the night, so I guess it couldn’t have been terrible? I just genuinely don’t know what actually feels best for guys or if deepthroating is pleasurable or uncomfortable for them.

Was I probably doing something wrong? I need advice on how to give a better bj

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u/Emotional_Poet_2810 — 2 days ago