u/EntertainmentVast502

I got this cage, which has an unusual feature on its ring.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B089DBRP8D

I wore it successfully for eleven days. On the twelfth day, for reasons that are not clear to me, my scrotum swelled, up, lapping over the basket. At the same time, I got that burning sensation under my scrotum. Obviously the cage geometry hadn't changed, so apparently my body had. I've had to switch to a similar cage, with a ring with the same dimensions and curve, but no basket, and now I'm fine.

It's a pity, because I liked that basket. It let me wear resistance leggings in comfort, and kept my cell phone from hitting my balls.

I've been wearing the same cage, continuously, for 11 days now, with occasional chafing/burning under the scrotum, but nothing that I couldn't handle. Then, this morning, I was awakened by an unignorable burn. It got so bad I actually had to take the cage off, and when I went to put it back on, I had unusual difficulty in doing so. My scrotum was less pliable, as though it had somehow gotten more full. I think the two things are connected.

Any thoughts?

So I've got a big ol' stone face, and I'm a stoic, emotionally unavailable. How she ever loved me in the first place is something of a mystery.

But in chastity, I find myself sharing feelings, among other things telling her often how beautiful she is, which used to be just something I mostly experienced internally. I think I've gotten a bit nicer in practical terms.

And doing this has definitely gotten me more opportunities to be nice in my favorite way, which is eating her out.

Is it possible to link the Mission 2 to the Ferri in such a way that the same person can wear them both, the Mission 2 doesn't do anything itself, and the Mission's touch sensitivity controls the Ferri?

I'm considering purchasing both, but not if I can't link them that way.

Owner of an Edge 2 and a Hush 2.

I am caged, 24-7, with a goal of 79 days locked this time. I do not know if I will shrink in chastity - the science is vague and the anecdotes are contradictory, but I hope to. I also don't have a really big cock, but my girlfriend is tight enough that she has some discomfort from PIV anyway. And because she does, and because I love eating her out and my best orgasms are manual-in-her-presence, she remains tight. I've never stretched her out in a lasting way.

If I do shrink, I will take a chastity break, recover, and use a Clone-a-Willy. Then I will return to chastity and shrink again.

"Remember that big nasty thing that used to stretch me? I have it right here... Urg. That hurts. I'm going to take it out now.

"Suck my juices off it. Good, aren't they?

"Let's see what you have now. Oh, it's so cute! So tiny! Now, stick it in... I guess I can feel it a little. I mean, I know it's there.

"Let's see if I can jerk you off with just my finger and thumb..."

Well, my situation is more like "I am still the man you've known for a couple of decades, but if you lock me up I can *also* be the boy you remember who offered you oral sex on our first date." But I'm one of the lucky ones.

EDIT: That date was the kind of thing you can't make up. I had been crushing on her for months, she was, unknown to me, watching me "like a hawk in the sky" and waiting for me to say something, but I was too shy. She eventually sold me on joining her to watch terrible movies with some mutual friends, not even to get me alone, just to get me to go *anywhere* with her, and maybe open that conversation. At the movie night, she was the one who kicked in for pizza, because she had the convenient denominations in her wallet. Went all night, we needed an early morning snack going home, ended up at a diner. She offered to pay for that as well, I said "No, I'll get this. If you paid for everything, I'd owe you oral sex. ...not that I'd mind." Well, it wasn't exactly smooth sailing, but I'm pretty sure we were in the groove to be together from that moment.

FURTHER EDIT: We turned up late for the movie night. We were going in her clunker of a car that she drove at the time, and had a flat. I guided her to a parking lot I knew that would be empty late. We called our friends: "So, she knows how to change a tire, and I can probably actually do it. We'll be along sometime."

If this is too little chastity advice, too much bildungsroman, I am a little sorry. But it's good for me to shout this out onto the internet.

After a two week break from chastity, I'm going to start a 79-day lock today.

Why exactly 79? She's heading into the mountains for a family vacation. Then she'll come back, be home for a bit over a month, and then she has a business trip, which will be followed by her taking advantage of the flight connections on the way back to visit some friends in a foreign country.

So the lock will run from her initial departure to her final return. It should *feel* very romantic/coercive.

There's a small chance she'll have sex with another woman on the later trip. I hope she does. She wants to, but also has doubts. I have been trying to reassure her.

Do all Ternence cages fit all Ternence rings, except for the really weird one that obviously don't? Or are there subtle differences that make that impossible?