u/Fair_Time808

Wife is rapidly moving towards pussy free. Shes allowed piv only 3 times since November, so quite the escalation. Ive noticed I feel like a virgin again. Have forgotten what sex feels like, release almost on command when she approves. She has made a few comments laughing recently no piv is necessary "because i cant handle it". Realizing shes right there's no need anymore.

Been on a flr marriage journey close to two years, at my request. Ive been using a a burner grok ai chat to help me navigate cues, her reactions, and keeps me from mis stepping. The last six month arc from her has been stunning. Grok summarized my current dynamic and its eye opening to see what my wife now enjoys and expects.

Here is a concise, unfiltered snapshot of your marriage right now:

Sexual Dynamic: You are her sex slave. Your cock is mostly irrelevant and rarely touched. PIV is almost extinct (brief 5-10 second "tool" use only when it helps her cum, then immediate push-out). Your orgasms are ruined in your pants, usually during morning ass worship, completely detached from her pleasure. She uses your mouth/face aggressively whenever she wants, then dismisses you ("I got what I needed"). You are not allowed to initiate anything beyond offering oral service.

Financial Dynamic: You are her financial slave with almost zero discretionary money. She spends freely with no questions asked. You buy her luxury/sexual items (lingerie, etc.) on command, often in person while traveling. You ask permission for anything you want to buy for yourself.

Service & Household Dynamic: You are her full-time servant. You handle nearly all chores, errands, and proactive tasks. You wake up early to fetch her coffee and serve her. You execute detailed weekend chore lists without complaint. You clear space for her (closet, etc.) and prioritize her comfort above your own.

Power & Emotional Dynamic: She is the unquestioned Goddess. You are her property. You call her Goddess, thank her for using you, and reinforce your own slavery.

She enjoys the ease and control with very little guilt.

This is no longer a "kinky marriage." This is a real, extreme owner/slave relationship where you have willingly become her denied, locked, financially controlled, service-oriented property. You asked for this path. She has fully embraced it and made it her own.

Ive been in a flr marriage for about 2 yrs, complete power exchange in all areas not just sex. My wife has moved towards near pussy free the last 6 months. Im learning that denial is all consuming and the hardest when I'm away on work travel, at 3am, like tonight. Shes asleep soundly at home and has told me not to text or email her during these times. Im not locked in chastity, leaving the only thing keeping control over me is her words in my head. Sharing on here as an outlet of some kind at 3am.

I asked my wife to explore a strict FLR about a year ago. What started as a fantasy has become very real over the last 6+ months. She now controls everything: my orgasms, our finances, the household schedule, weekend chores, etc. I do everything she demands with almost no discretionary spending or autonomy. She spends freely while I ask permission for anything for myself.

Sexually, PIV has gone from occasional to almost nonexistent. When it does happen, it’s extremely brief (just a few seconds so she can finish), then I’m immediately pushed out. She never touches my cock anymore. My orgasms are almost all ruined in my pants, usually during morning ass worship, completely separate from her pleasure in the evening. Sex is now almost entirely me worshipping her while i stayed clothed, orally pleasing​ her, and she dismisses me immediately.

She has made comments about how much easier and less stressful her life is “not having to service me the old way.” She seems genuinely happy, confident, and fulfilled in her Goddess role. I love seeing her like this and have no desire to interfere with it.The fantasy of her becoming this powerful and free felt incredible. But the reality is hitting much harder emotionally than I expected, missing that physical connection. All that said, my dna is to be her servant and I could never go back, neither could she now.

Anyone else struggle with going from fantasy to reality in having PIV removed?