u/Few_Needleworker_716

Hi guys. I'm f18, and I've been in a relationship with an older guy (30) for three months now. We are long distance, because he lives in another country. We haven't meet irl yet, but we are planning to, very soon. The thing is - my mom..she would absolutely kill me if she'd find out I'm dating a 30 year old man and that Im about to meet him irl.

What should I do? If he'd visit, he would be here for a few days for sure, so I'd have to go out everyday to hang out with him. I don't want to lie to my mom, but I know how controlling and overprotective she is, and she would NEVER let me meet someone like that.

I don't know what to do..any advice regarding that? 😓