u/Fit-Network-9865

So in stealth and I’ve been talking to this cis guy recently (first time ever talking to/dating a cis man). When he first approached me he didn’t know I was trans and I only told him that I am very recently(sue me), anyways before he learned I was trans he told me in passing that he can never get it up for a girl. Today we finally had some action and when he got hard I felt so euphoric and validated that he sees me 100% as a man. Yall I’m so happy rn

I’m currently seeing a cis guy for the first time and we’re both interested in having sex soon. I’ve never had any sexual interaction with a cis man not to mention PIV or anal. he asked if I preferred PIV or anal but I really don’t know. I’m worried anal will be too much work(really don’t know how that works) and I’m worried PIV could potentially make me dysphoric.

Any thoughts? Any experienced guys wanna share some wisdom?