Hello. My (31f) (now ex) wife (40F) ended our marriage last week. (We were never legally married but called each other spouses).
In our conversation ending our marriage, she asked me if I would consider continuing our D/s relationship.
I told her I would think about it but would need to know more as to what that would actually look like.
My question to everyone here is, has anyone ever been through this? Is this feasible?
We are scheduled to have a conversation later this week as to where the "line" is between being her spouse and being her submissive. She also wants us to talk about what we each have to offer for the D/s relationship in this conversation too.
To answer any questions about "why" she ended our marriage; she said she couldn't give me what I needed as a spouse and that she was not being a good wife to me.
There are A LOT more complications to this but I am currently just trying to see if anyone has ever deescalated their "vanilla" relationship and their D/s relationship survived.
EDIT: To add, we are in a polyamorous relationship (she has a husband (they were "married" before her and I started dating). I currently do not have any other partners).
I am the first person she has ever felt Dominant towards. (She always identified as a switch but mostly service-topped in the community). I have had one previous dynamic but it was pretty toxic / unhealthy.