Father (M47) asked by Son (M24) to be his sperm donor
Recently my son told me about some infertility issues he was having with his wife. They’d been married for one year, together for 6 years and he’d confessed that they’ve been trying for a child for a very long time, he told me they’d been very careless with unprotected sex and that if it happened, it happened. After they got married they made more of a conscious effort for kids and after no success they went to the Drs to understand what the issue was. His wife was fine but my boy was shooting blanks as such, he had an accident in his late teens that required some minor surgery and unfortunately the likelihood of him having kids of his own was next to none.
His wife wasn’t aware of his fertility outcome, but he knew he didn’t want to adopt nor did he want someone else’s sperm, he wanted his own “bloodline” as such, and came to me for help. Now we’re both super close and I have always done anything and everything for him but I was a little unsure myself on how to handle the situation. He didn’t want his wife to know, but that lead to the question, “how do we use my sperm then?”
He wanted to me to jizz in a cup, and to leave the rest to him. Logistically it couldn’t work out, my son lives a 40 minute drive away from me, his wife works shifts at the hospital so timings is very difficult for the situation.
What’s the best way for us to sort this?