Intensity or intimacy? Pick one for long term
Porn made aggression look passionate, so now people confuse intensity with intimacy. What looks “wild” on screen isn’t always pleasurable in real life real chemistry listens, slows down, and understands boundaries…
I also agree to the fact that some people learned sex from porn and forgot that real pleasure isn’t performance. “Rough” isn’t automatically good comfort, consent, and connection matter more than imitation.
Not everything that trends in porn translates to real intimacy. A lot of people are chasing a fantasy instead of understanding what actually feels safe, mutual, and enjoyable…I mean it takes a lot to realise how we perceive it as a way of enjoying things but it’s not good for long term I would say…
So,drop your opinions accordingly and what you think.