u/IcyVenice

what do i do if i want to stop having sex with my boyfriend due to anorgasmia

I (F19) have been dating my boyfriend (M19) for a year now. We’ve had a very active sexual life. however, i have never been able to achieve an orgasm, through masturbation (i’ve tried toys, things to relax myself, etc) or sex. i also started SSRIs this year, i assume if i am capable of having one this i assume would make it even more difficult. it’s kind of made me wants to just stop having sex in general. i kind of just want to focus on my boyfriends pleasure but before i lost my drive he would always just say “whatever will make you feel good/whatever you want”, so it’s kind of just made me lose any motivation for sex in general. i told him i dont want to have sex for now and he’s okay with that. however, i dont know how long this will go on for. should i say that we probably wont be having sex for a quite while or extremely early just because i dont really enjoy it? i’m on the fence since ive never been able to or be capable of having one and although he’s been fine with it, i dont know if he will be forever.

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u/IcyVenice — 10 days ago