u/Innocent_Church_Girl

So I am finally meeting my Dom/Sir in person this coming weekend, I am making it a long weekend trip, a Thursday-Monday, it was a spur of the moment decision, but it worked out best for Him and I, I have been long distance training under Him for a little bit now, for a few weeks long distance, Sir lives in NY Manhattan, and I ND.

And the Midwest is not commonly know to have people interested in this type of lifestyle. But I am 24 and have been wanting to get into the lifestyle more permanently, and Sir has agreed to take me under his guidance. So as of right now, over the summer He will have me come to Him in NYC probably 1x a month, and in the fall, I’ll be permanently moving in with Him and His wife, which is his full time submissive.

I’m nervous and excited. I’ve never flown alone so this is going to really test my limits on what I’m capable of doing alone. His wife will also be training me to become a better submissive, and prepare me for moving in permanently into His household. Once I am there Sir will do his assessment over me and inspection and we’ll go over rules and expectations. I’m nervous, as I want to be a good fit for His household, so fingers cross.

Sir said so far he’s really happy about everything I am, Ive made a few mistakes over the past few last weeks, so there’s a good chance my butt has got his name on it. lol. But this is going to really help me become a better submissive and woman.

The ultimate goal for me is to be trained under Sir fully, and whenever Sir thinks I’m ready, he’ll find me a suitable suitor and Dom that will take me under His guidance. I am going to be looking for a Dom that will eventually marry me and take me as His chosen. 💜 (everything I have said is 100% consensual, and I am very careful about online creeps.)

So wish me luck over this next weekend, and summer, know I only wish my summer would go by fast. 🥰 thanks everyone.

I am getting married in a few months! Yay! To my fiancé, aka my Dom. We have together for about 3 years now, I (24), he (27) have been in a CDD (Christian Domestic Discipline) relationship since the beginning of our courtship. I’ve always wanted someone to be able to take control of the relationship, and eventually be HOH. We have been talking through everything that will change, as we become Husband and Wife. I have always wanted to be a stay at home wife and one day to be a stay at home mom. And Sir agrees as he works 40+ hour weeks. I’m very excited for this next chapter of our lives. But I’m writing this post to ask any HOH/Doms/Husbands that have stay at home wives/subs. What are you requirements, and chores that you ask/require for your partner to have done and completed, before you get home and also when you are home. Sir asked me to make a good list of chores and responsibilities that I will do, and also appropriate consequences and punishments that fit the crime. Once I have a good list, I’ll have him look over it and see what he thinks. Thanks for any suggestions and advice.