ex broke up with me for another guy
my (22m) partner (24f) was my first everything, literally. me not hers but we were together for nearly 3 years when we hit a rough patch. she started doing more activities and clubs that didn’t include me and we drifted apart this time last year.
coincidentally she found someone else that she liked being with during this rough patch. so she broke it off with me and listed a lot of bs reasons for doing so, but she was already spending nights (doing nothing according to her 🙄) at his place. so we broke up and i obviously knew what was going on every night, her getting railed at his apartment while i was away on a work trip.
we were still texting each other so i knew everything what was happening. this was the same guy She told me not to worry about and the same guy that I dropped her off at bars with. I still had her location at this point so I would see her at his apartment every night and when I would ask, I would get no response or something along the lines of don’t worry about it It’s not a big deal. But I guess I was asking too much because she turned off her location sharing with me and that drove me crazy.
I remember begging her, not to sleep with the guy while I was away from my work trip and to wait until I got back so that we could talk it over. and to be honest, she did keep her end of the bargain because they only made out while I was away and they only slept together after I got back.
anyway, I got back from my trip and we fucked one last time and a couple days later I got a FaceTime from her which I answered very nervously, and she called me to tell me that she ended up sleeping with him. Curiosity got the best of me. I asked for details. She said it wasn’t anything special. He finished very quickly because he hasn’t had sex in a minute. I was very distraught after hearing that and I ended that quickly. Big mistake. She ended up sleeping with him again the next night, which she told me lasted all night long, and I later came to find out that it included the shower sex, which we rarely do.
After hearing about those incidents, I decided it was best if we cut contact, but I couldn’t keep myself from texting her every week or so. She would send me pictures of her doing cute thing