so I’m going on four day trip with one of my regulars. He is great. He pays pretty well, handsome, etc. BUT. When he gets drunk hes soooo annoying like im 2 seconds from snapping. When hes sober he is a great person and super sweet. Hes not aggressive or anything but annoying to the point that I want to put earplugs in. He goes on racist rants (Im mixed? wtf) and starts talking about political stuff I dont care about.
So every time I’m at the grocery store, gym airport, etc. Guys ask for my #. Every single time after a bit of texting, they asked for pictures or a FaceTime. And of course I ask them for money in exchange. They always get mad. Is it appropriate if i tell them prior to getting my number I will entertain the convo for money?
SW made me mean as fuck toward men. Before escorting I was genuinely sweet and friendly, especially to guys. Not in that “Nice guy” way. I mean genuinely kind and friendly. Then I saw how a lot of men actually move and realized being “the sweet girl” just gets you used.
The nicer I was, the more men took advantage of it. The second I became rude, vicious, entitled, and stopped tolerating bullshit, suddenly I got respect.
Being nice got me nowhere.
Edit: Weirdly enough the only men im nice to are my clients because I know their intentions and we are pretty open with eachother. This is NOT me saying im rude to them lol theyre great. Civvy men on the other hand 🤢