From „nothing happened“ to a pregnancy scare
Saw a comment here recently about someone’s gf and her male friend. How he gradually discovered the truth about how close they were.
I have a similar story. A little bit of background. Had an almost 9 months break with my now fiancé in 2024. Worked it out. Got back together. Of course I had to ask her about all her flings. She wasn’t all that sexual of a person up until our break. Fooled around with 3 guys up until then including me. But she surely had her fair share of fun while we were broken apart.
I asked her about a guy we knew back from highschool. He was always a bit too flirty for my taste. And she was always a bit too nice to him too. So I had to ask, if she met him/ hooked up with him. At first she told me she didn’t do anything with him. Than I found some pics from some parties/ meet ups during our break up. Nothing too sexual, but they were pretty close to each other on those pics. Confronted her about it. She told me: yeah, met up a couple of times during our break, but nothing ever happened, just some parties, totally innocent. Slept at his place, that was all. „Ofc he slept on the couch, baby.“
Some months went by. Snooped around some more. Found some discord messages while she was at her parents. I found some very explicit messages between them. Asked her several times about it without telling her how much I knew. Told her she could be honest. It went from: „we slept in one bed, okay, thats all“ to „we kissed, but we were drunk, but nothing happened“ to „yeah, we fiddled around a bit, but nothing more, not even a bj“ to „yeah, I blew him but that’s really all“ to „okay, we fucked, but he wasn’t really hard, cause of all the alcohol“ to (and this was the craziest thing) „had to take the pill after as he nutted in me“ in the span of a couple of months.
Pretty funny how she dosed the truth so as to not hurt my feelings. She still hasn’t revealed everything as I know from their discord texts. Kinda enjoying getting her to admit the truth piece by piece.