u/MonsterBarusa

I've been curious about bi play for a long while now, and would love to find a nice environment to experiment. I would say I'm much more on the sub/bottom side, but willing to play switch. A couple would be ideal, but I am open to any possible partners. I'm especially looking to give oral and try frotting. I would be open to bottoming in time as well. An ongoing thing would be great too. I'm not able to host, and weekends are generally best for me... Anyway, please do feel free to write if interested!

I never seem to know how to start with this kind of thing, I feel like I'm terrible at getting myself across properly and I'm prone to greatly overthinking things, but I've been an unfulfilled submissive and aspiring good boy for a long, long time.

My romantic and sex life has been... sparse, at best, and I often feel overwhelmed trying to lead a relationship. Sexually, I've often been slotted into the dominant role, but honestly it feels like I'm just going through the motions and it really doesn't do much for me. Long story short, I need a mommydomme in my life.

While I would greatly prefer meeting someone locally and actually having physical experiences, I am very open to online connections as well. I would say I'm looking for someone engaging and nurturing (as well as super freaky, haha) I just would be so grateful to actually feel wanted. I'm so touch-starved too... Little surprise acts of affection, a quick kiss, a soft touch, really make my heart flutter because I've experienced those moments so infrequently in life, haha.

I'm not particularly into strict protocol or like the super hardline BDSM stuff myself, but I am certainly willing to indulge it for a partner, I am very much the pleasing type overall.

Some of my kinks/curiosities/etc though are - giving oral and body worship, scents (armpits, body pheromones), cum play (kissing, being fed, etc), lactation/ANR. So, I would say I'm big on the sensual side, I really crave a sense of immersion in my partner. I also love dirty talk.

A little about myself - I'm 6'0, 185, long hair. I currently work as a machinist (which is suuuuuper focus-heavy, stressful, and draining - I just want to be lost in mommy instead~ *sigh*) and previously was a silversmith. I'f be hapoy to show you some of my work! It's still the analog era in my heart, most of my pop culture tastes skew heavily 20th century. I enjoy art, cooking, gardening, vinyl, manga.

Top 5 anime - Yu Yu Hakusho, Space Runaway Ideon, Fist of the North Star, Space Adventure Cobra, Orguss

Music- Neil Young, Prince, Led Zeppelin, Sade, Stevie Wonder, Miles Davis, a... vast world of classic reggae

Movies - Zardoz, Forbidden Zone, True Stories, Jacob's Ladder, Commando

Games - Ninja Turtles III, Donkey Kong Country 2, Star Ocean 2, Contra Hard Corps, and whatever my current fixation happens to be

While I am looking for a relationship pretty heavy on the sexual elements, I really do want to find someone who I actually relate to and can admire as a mommy.

So, anyway, if you've made it this far and you're still interested, please do feel free to write me. Let's try and get to know one another and see where it goes! I would be happy to send any pictures you'd like as well.

No findoms, no Republicans, no Israel supporters

Bonus points for armpit hair!

I've been having a really difficult time finding a dominant partner in the local dating scene, so I'm attempting to reach out here...

I'm a Machinist (/artist/daydreamer) in Kent, OH. I guess I would describe myself best as a tattered remnant of the analog era. I have a huge record collection (Prince, Neil Young, jazz, reggae, etc) I enjoy art, gardening, and inane little projects. Anime/manga (70s-early 00s) and video games (NES to PS2/GC era)

Top 5 Anime - Space Runaway Ideon, Fist of the North Star, Yu Yu Hakusho, Space Advebture Cobra, and, since I watched it most recently, let's say Orguss

Top 5 Games - Turtles III, Donkey Kong Country 2, Star Ocean 2, Zone of the Enders, and Contra Hard Corps

Definitely more of a homebody but I do enjoy getting out and nature and all, especially with someone.

I'm very much on the submissive side romantically/sexually, and would love to find a compatible partner to at least be able to comfortably explore with. I honestly do not have much experience at all in terms of kinks, but I would say I'm super open and friendly to trying most things. I'm not personally super into bondage/chastity kind of scenarios but certainly willing to indulge and learn. I would prefer to avoid harsher humiliation/degradation though.

I *do* have kind of a thing for scents/pheromones though and would especially appreciate someone who's also into that. (Bonus points for armpit hair! :p) I would also say I really enjoy giving massages and body/oral worship and such...

As it is, work is super stressful and I find that it's difficult for me to always initiate/lead when dating. I just can't always be "on" all the time and desperately need to let go. I've always loved the idea of a FLR even if not fully D/s oriented, but a soft, nurturing mommydomme would be just perfect... I'm not particularly into any specific ageplay or anything but I do enjoy the general feel of that sort of dynamic. I'm also *super* curious about lactation/ANR so that would be really cool to explore together as well.

As far as relationship structure, I also would be open to trying different arrangements out, and I admittedly am very curious about swinging lifestyles as well. Ultimately though I would rather you be more inclined to take the reins in that respect. I'm definitely emotionally available and receptive, but I don't intend to push anything that's not just unfolding naturally.

Someone local would be ideal, as I *do* actually want the physical experiences, but I'm very willing to explore long distance/online connections as well. I'm also open to any gender, except for cis men. [M4TF] [M4NB]

So...if you should happen to feel like reaching out, please do feel free to DM and I would be happy to elaborate on anything, share some pictures, and start getting to properly know one another!