u/Moonbunmayhem

Hi, im 34 and pansexual. Ive been mostly romantically and sexually involved with men but most of my firsts (sexually and romantically) were with a woman. I identify as a sub leaning switch and have only lived out my dominant side a few times.

Despite that I generally watch porn from the perspective of the top, facilitator, aggressor, dom. I only very rarely watch porn from a submissive headspace.

Im curious about other's experiences when watching porn and how it correlates to how you identify. Which perspective do you watch it from? Or do you watch it without connecting to either party, more from a voyeristic perspective?