First time Hedo advice
Hello! Mid forties couple heading to Jamaica July 7-12. Grabbing night passes for Wednesday bondage lingerie theme and Friday Gala Night, how do people dress? Trying to find pics and get ideas, don’t want to go overboard or to boring. Pasties under mesh or no? Shirt skirts and thongs or commando? What about guys? Will be our first time at any place like this. That week Flufflernutters will be there, seems like a fun group based on Reddit posts. Do they participate in theme night or do their own thing?