u/Nice-Pound-2706

When I was straight, I was self conscious about it. When I was bi and occasionally hooking up with guys, I was self conscious about it. When I first started sleeping only with men, I was self conscious about it. But thanks to a couple of amazing tops over the past year, I've come to love it, I love that it's small and I love seeing another cock next to it, and I love that it stays soft when I'm being fucked. Never thought I'd feel this way and I never ever imagined that there were tops out there that would also love it but there are and that's so fucking hot.

51yo, bi for just over 20 years. Occasionally hooked up with guys, enjoyed it, got married (to a woman) and stopped but missed it. A couple of years ago we opened up the marriage - for a few reasons we didn't have sex any more, and the agreement is that whatever we do and whoever we do it with stays outside of the house.

I went back to men, and nobody knows. Not my wife, not friends, etc. And for whatever reason, that on its own is a turn on. I was friends with a couple who would take turns on me in their sling. I've sucked a stranger or three off in his truck. I met a guy on sniffies who fucked me silly then filled me with piss. Last week I met a random guy at a bar and we made out in the bathroom (that was all, but it was still hot). The fact that nobody knows and also wouldn't expect or guess this is part of the fun. If they did find out it wouldn't be a big deal and I think that might be its own turn on but for now this is what it is. Hard to envision ever sleeping with a woman again.