u/NoPhrase2087

31m here, this was two years ago, he was a few years older than me. We met on a nudist page here.

I've been confused about my relationship to other guys for a bit. Just really wanted to have that ultimate intimate bro bond that didn't get into full sex or romance.

He was straight, and new about my confusion.

We were video chatting for a bit about life, struggles. Out of nowhere I get hard, and apologize, embarrassed. I thought it was going to be over tbh. I got hard because we were taking about sex and relationships, not because I wanted 'him'.

Surprisingly he fully understood. Told me not to be embarrassed, and we kept talking. We both wound up stoking in the most absolutely casual way, eventually just talking philosophy and identity.

We came, and it felt SO good, SO calm. Like nothing I ever felt. We didn't want to sleep with each other and we weren't attracted to each other. Just bros in total comfort sharing a moment.

I deactivated because I got nervous about the whole thing. Immediately regretting it, I signed back up the next day. When I reached out apologizing, he didn't accept. Said my deleting was sus. Didn't seem to have an interest in men who were unsure/confused in any way. Which leads me to believe maybe he was nervous too.

Our conversations remain the most 'seen' i had felt in a long long time.

I think there is a lot of pressure to pick a label, or 'explore' past where you're comfortable. There is such a stigmatization against male closeness, and I think it really harms us. I think you can ID as straight, be mostly heterosexual, and LOVE to bust with other guys.

Sometimes guys just appreciate the male form, want to have certain intimacy, and get confidence from blowing off steam with other guys. It can help with self esteem, and even help your relationships with women. Men should be vulnerable with other men, and mutual jerking is one way to do that.

As someone who is re assessing his sexuality in his 30s, I really wish we could move past assigning labels and assuming bad intent. For some guys don't want to ID as gay/bi because they're homophobic (internally or just externally) or DL. That's not always the case though. Gay/bi guys can also want to JO with guys that they don't have romantic interest in, just want the bromance.

So idk. Just my thoughts.

Looking to host chill guys on weekends and some week nights. Talk life, goals, women, problems. Jerk, compare, watch a game? Any baseball fans? Lmk what you like.

Please be 21+, into women, and not looking for 'more'. This isn't about having gay/bi experiences, it's about BROmance and letting off steam.

I can host most week nights. Looking for another guy to hang naked with, jerk, compare, talk with. Just two guys hanging.

Please be over 21, down to meet and verify, and attracted to women.

31M here. I have spend that last few years pretty confused about what I 'want' in term of sex and dating. This was only made worse by people's assumptions about sexuality and policing of identity.

I believe 1000% that a man can be solely romantically attracted to women, and almost solely sexually attracted to women, while also craving deep physical and emotional intimacy with men.

When it comes to two bros jerking and comparing, you can be seeking something that is about friendship and building confidence. I know that since starting this journey, I feel way more secure in my own masculinity.

This is a need many gay men have too, an attraction to someone that's just about bromance. So it helps everyone to note these differences to avoid confusion and inner turmoil.

I know people don't want to get hung up on labels, but they can also help you gain clarity on what you need.

I am still figuring out my sexuality, but I know now I need a bromance and jo bud relationship with one or two guys.

Feel free to lmk what you think.

I can host Fri-Sun looking for a consistent friend and JO bud.

Hang naked, compare, jerk. Talk life, goals, women. Any baseball fans?

Bust and hang, nothing 'more'.

Please be 21+, chill, and respectful. Let's meet up for a drink first?

Thise will only work if you're into and down go talk women.

31 year old guy. Looking for someone down to hang naked, jerk, be friends.

Talk life, goals, women. Any baseball fans?

Please be over 21 and into women. Jerking only, not looking for 'more'

Voice chat+

Hang naked, relax, compare, bust together.

It's that simple. Bonus if you're a baseball fan. Not looking for sex or romance here.

Please be over 21, into women, and meet and verify first.