[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49
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Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).
I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.
Quick basics so there’s no confusion:
FTM = I was born female but live as a man
Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction
I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.
I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.
What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.
Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.
Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.
If you message me, please include:
Your name
Age
Location
Hobbies/interests
And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.
I won’t respond to:
“hey” / “what’s up” messages
sexual/opening messages right away
I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.
If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.