u/No_Estimate_6352

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

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Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

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u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

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u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

39 FTM Holden, La Married &Open Poly seeking Something Real with men

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Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local bi men 25-49

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Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM bottom | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Realwitj local men 25-49

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

reddit.com
u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

[M4M] 39 FTM | Holden, LA (Livingston Parish) | Married & Open Poly | Looking for Something Real with men.

​

Hey 👋 I’m a 39 FTM guy in Holden, Louisiana (Livingston Parish).

I’m in an open poly marriage—my wife and I date separately. She’s into women, I’m into men. It’s all honest, no sneaking, no hidden stuff, just two people living life independently and respectfully.

Quick basics so there’s no confusion:

FTM = I was born female but live as a man

Demisexual = I need an emotional connection before I feel attraction

I’ve had top surgery, so I’m masculine up top and still have my original tight pussy with huge clit and I'm keeping it so must be attracted to me and my body as it is.

I’m 5’7, average build, 4 tattoos, laid-back, funny, and easygoing. I’m into horror movies, WWE, music of all kinds, and I’m a mix of sarcastic + chill depending on comfort level. I like real conversation and steady connection over time.

What I’m looking for: Men 25–49 who are masculine/rugged/athletic/muscular, ideally with a short beard or goatee. I’m into guys who are consistent, grounded, and actually enjoy daily communication + a bit of sweet/flirty banter.

Not really into clean-shaven, heavyset, or grey/grey-beard looks—just being honest so nobody wastes time. I also prefer slow-building connections rather than anything rushed or hookup-based.

Important stuff (so we don’t waste each other’s time): No threesomes or group situations with my wife. I don’t drive 🚫🚗 so local (Holden / Livingston Parish / nearby Louisiana) works best.

If you message me, please include:

Your name

Age

Location

Hobbies/interests

And after the first message, a clear face selfie so I know who I’m talking to.

I won’t respond to:

“hey” / “what’s up” messages

sexual/opening messages right away

I like real conversation and a little effort—it doesn’t have to be perfect, just real.

If you’re a grounded guy who communicates well and likes something consistent and slow-building in a poly setup, feel free to reach out. Let’s see if we vibe.

u/No_Estimate_6352 — 3 days ago

Holden/Livingston | 39 FTM | Looking for Rugged, Masculine Bi Men (25-49) for Open Poly Relationships & Regular fwbs

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​Hey guys! I’m a 39-year-old trans man (FTM), average build, with a masculine flat chest from top surgery, but I kept my tight fat pussy and huge clit. I’m looking to meet some rugged guys who are actually obsessed with that specific mix.

​Just to clear up how my household works: my wife and I practice open polyamory, but we date completely separately. She only dates women, and I only date men. This is strictly 1-on-1 for us, so there are absolutely no threesomes and you won't be dealing with my wife at all.

​Who I’m looking for:

I’m really into multiple muscular, athletic, rugged country types—think tattoos, backwards hats, and that "leaning against the truck" energy. I am strictly looking for guys between 25 and 49 only, and I'm not into heavyset guys. I only like short trimmed colored beards or goatees with no grey in them. Average+ size and high stamina are a big plus! 🛻💨

​The Vibe & How Open Poly Works:

If you are new to polyamory, don't sweat it, it's pretty simple. It just means I’ll be dating multiple people, and you are totally free to date or fuck others at the same time too. All I ask for is clear, open communication so everyone is on the same page.

​I am not looking for same-day sex or a one-time quick hookup, so please keep scrolling if that's your goal. I want to build a real "best friend" bond first. I don't like sarcastic banter—I just want funny, sweet, daily consistent communication and digital banter. I want a guy who actually wants to spend time together and proactively plans dates. I just need to see some real effort!

​The Logistics:

​Pace: Intimacy starts up once we are officially dating and the connection is there.

​Travel: I don’t drive, so you will need to be able to come out my way.

​Privacy: We can't do house calls because of my teenage daughter, but backseats, the yard at night, or your place all work great. I also love filming our chemistry together! 🎥

​Safety: Safe sex only. Condoms are required unless you've had a vasectomy. Absolutely no cheaters and no sleepovers.

​Think we’d click? Drop me a message with your name, age, location, and what you like to do for fun. You must include a clean selfie to get a reply! 😉

u/No_Estimate_6352 — 8 days ago

Holden/Livingston | 39 FTM | Looking for Rugged, Masculine Bi Men (25-49) for Open Poly Relationships & Regular FWBs

​

​Hey guys! I’m a 39-year-old trans man (FTM), average build, with a masculine flat chest from top surgery, but I kept my tight fat pussy and huge clit. I’m looking to meet some rugged guys who are actually obsessed with that specific mix.

​Just to clear up how my household works: my wife and I practice open polyamory, but we date completely separately. She only dates women, and I only date men. This is strictly 1-on-1 for us, so there are absolutely no threesomes and you won't be dealing with my wife at all.

​Who I’m looking for:

I’m really into multiple muscular, athletic, rugged country types—think tattoos, backwards hats, and that "leaning against the truck" energy. I am strictly looking for guys between 25 and 49 only, and I'm not into heavyset guys. I only like short trimmed colored beards or goatees with no grey in them. Average+ size and high stamina are a big plus! 🛻💨

​The Vibe & How Open Poly Works:

If you are new to polyamory, don't sweat it, it's pretty simple. It just means I’ll be dating multiple people, and you are totally free to date or fuck others at the same time too. All I ask for is clear, open communication so everyone is on the same page.

​I am not looking for same-day sex or a one-time quick hookup, so please keep scrolling if that's your goal. I want to build a real "best friend" bond first. I don't like sarcastic banter—I just want funny, sweet, daily consistent communication and digital banter. I want a guy who actually wants to spend time together and proactively plans dates. I just need to see some real effort!

​The Logistics:

​Pace: Intimacy starts up once we are officially dating and the connection is there.

​Travel: I don’t drive, so you will need to be able to come out my way.

​Privacy: We can't do house calls because of my teenage daughter, but backseats, the yard at night, or your place all work great. I also love filming our chemistry together! 🎥

​Safety: Safe sex only. Condoms are required unless you've had a vasectomy. Absolutely no cheaters and no sleepovers.

​Think we’d click? Drop me a message with your name, age, location, and what you like to do for fun. You must include a clean selfie to get a reply! 😉

u/No_Estimate_6352 — 8 days ago

Holden/Livingston | 39 FTM | Looking for Rugged, Masculine Bi Men (25-49) for Open Poly Relationships & Regular FWBs

​

​Hey guys! I’m a 39-year-old trans man (FTM), average build, with a masculine flat chest from top surgery, but I kept my tight fat pussy and huge clit. I’m looking to meet some rugged guys who are actually obsessed with that specific mix.

​Just to clear up how my household works: my wife and I practice open polyamory, but we date completely separately. She only dates women, and I only date men. This is strictly 1-on-1 for us, so there are absolutely no threesomes and you won't be dealing with my wife at all.

​Who I’m looking for:

I’m really into multiple muscular, athletic, rugged country types—think tattoos, backwards hats, and that "leaning against the truck" energy. I am strictly looking for guys between 25 and 49 only, and I'm not into heavyset guys. I only like short trimmed colored beards or goatees with no grey in them. Average+ size and high stamina are a big plus! 🛻💨

​The Vibe & How Open Poly Works:

If you are new to polyamory, don't sweat it, it's pretty simple. It just means I’ll be dating multiple people, and you are totally free to date or fuck others at the same time too. All I ask for is clear, open communication so everyone is on the same page.

​I am not looking for same-day sex or a one-time quick hookup, so please keep scrolling if that's your goal. I want to build a real "best friend" bond first. I don't like sarcastic banter—I just want funny, sweet, daily consistent communication and digital banter. I want a guy who actually wants to spend time together and proactively plans dates. I just need to see some real effort!

​The Logistics:

​Pace: Intimacy starts up once we are officially dating and the connection is there.

​Travel: I don’t drive, so you will need to be able to come out my way.

​Privacy: We can't do house calls because of my teenage daughter, but backseats, the yard at night, or your place all work great. I also love filming our chemistry together! 🎥

​Safety: Safe sex only. Condoms are required unless you've had a vasectomy. Absolutely no cheaters and no sleepovers.

​Think we’d click? Drop me a message with your name, age, location, and what you like to do for fun. You must include a clean selfie to get a reply! 😉

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u/No_Estimate_6352 — 8 days ago

Holden/Livingston | 39 FTM | Looking for Rugged, Masculine Bi Men (25-49) for Open Poly Relationships & Regular FWBs

​

​Hey guys! I’m a 39-year-old trans man (FTM), average build, with a masculine flat chest from top surgery, but I kept my tight fat pussy and huge clit. I’m looking to meet some rugged guys who are actually obsessed with that specific mix.

​Just to clear up how my household works: my wife and I practice open polyamory, but we date completely separately. She only dates women, and I only date men. This is strictly 1-on-1 for us, so there are absolutely no threesomes and you won't be dealing with my wife at all.

​Who I’m looking for:

I’m really into multiple muscular, athletic, rugged country types—think tattoos, backwards hats, and that "leaning against the truck" energy. I am strictly looking for guys between 25 and 49 only, and I'm not into heavyset guys. I only like short trimmed colored beards or goatees with no grey in them. Average+ size and high stamina are a big plus! 🛻💨

​The Vibe & How Open Poly Works:

If you are new to polyamory, don't sweat it, it's pretty simple. It just means I’ll be dating multiple people, and you are totally free to date or fuck others at the same time too. All I ask for is clear, open communication so everyone is on the same page.

​I am not looking for same-day sex or a one-time quick hookup, so please keep scrolling if that's your goal. I want to build a real "best friend" bond first. I don't like sarcastic banter—I just want funny, sweet, daily consistent communication and digital banter. I want a guy who actually wants to spend time together and proactively plans dates. I just need to see some real effort!

​The Logistics:

​Pace: Intimacy starts up once we are officially dating and the connection is there.

​Travel: I don’t drive, so you will need to be able to come out my way.

​Privacy: We can't do house calls because of my teenage daughter, but backseats, the yard at night, or your place all work great. I also love filming our chemistry together! 🎥

​Safety: Safe sex only. Condoms are required unless you've had a vasectomy. Absolutely no cheaters and no sleepovers.

​Think we’d click? Drop me a message with your name, age, location, and what you like to do for fun. You must include a clean selfie to get a reply! 😉

u/No_Estimate_6352 — 8 days ago

Holden/Livingston | 39 FTM trans man bottom | Looking for Rugged, Masculine Bi Men tops (25-49) for Open Poly Relationships & Regular FWBs

​

​Hey guys! I’m a 39-year-old trans man (FTM), average build, with a masculine flat chest from top surgery, but I kept my tight fat pussy and huge clit. I’m looking to meet some rugged guys who are actually obsessed with that specific mix.

​Just to clear up how my household works: my wife and I practice open polyamory, but we date completely separately. She only dates women, and I only date men. This is strictly 1-on-1 for us, so there are absolutely no threesomes and you won't be dealing with my wife at all.

​Who I’m looking for:

I’m really into multiple muscular, athletic, rugged country types—think tattoos, backwards hats, and that "leaning against the truck" energy. I am strictly looking for guys between 25 and 49 only, and I'm not into heavyset guys. I only like short trimmed colored beards or goatees with no grey in them. Average+ size and high stamina are a big plus! 🛻💨

​The Vibe & How Open Poly Works:

If you are new to polyamory, don't sweat it, it's pretty simple. It just means I’ll be dating multiple people, and you are totally free to date or fuck others at the same time too. All I ask for is clear, open communication so everyone is on the same page.

​I am not looking for same-day sex or a one-time quick hookup, so please keep scrolling if that's your goal. I want to build a real "best friend" bond first. I don't like sarcastic banter—I just want funny, sweet, daily consistent communication and digital banter. I want a guy who actually wants to spend time together and proactively plans dates. I just need to see some real effort!

​The Logistics:

​Pace: Intimacy starts up once we are officially dating and the connection is there.

​Travel: I don’t drive, so you will need to be able to come out my way.

​Privacy: We can't do house calls because of my teenage daughter, but backseats, the yard at night, or your place all work great. I also love filming our chemistry together! 🎥

​Safety: Safe sex only. Condoms are required unless you've had a vasectomy. Absolutely no cheaters and no sleepovers.

​Think we’d click? Drop me a message with your name, age, location, and what you like to do for fun. You must include a clean selfie to get a reply! 😉

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u/No_Estimate_6352 — 8 days ago

Holden/Livingston | 39 FTM | Looking for Rugged, Masculine Bi Men (25-49) for Open Poly Relationships & Regular FWBs

​

​Hey guys! I’m a 39-year-old trans man (FTM), average build, with a masculine flat chest from top surgery, but I kept my tight fat pussy and huge clit. I’m looking to meet some rugged guys who are actually obsessed with that specific mix.

​Just to clear up how my household works: my wife and I practice open polyamory, but we date completely separately. She only dates women, and I only date men. This is strictly 1-on-1 for us, so there are absolutely no threesomes and you won't be dealing with my wife at all.

​Who I’m looking for:

I’m really into multiple muscular, athletic, rugged country types—think tattoos, backwards hats, and that "leaning against the truck" energy. I am strictly looking for guys between 25 and 49 only, and I'm not into heavyset guys. I only like short trimmed colored beards or goatees with no grey in them. Average+ size and high stamina are a big plus! 🛻💨

​The Vibe & How Open Poly Works:

If you are new to polyamory, don't sweat it, it's pretty simple. It just means I’ll be dating multiple people, and you are totally free to date or fuck others at the same time too. All I ask for is clear, open communication so everyone is on the same page.

​I am not looking for same-day sex or a one-time quick hookup, so please keep scrolling if that's your goal. I want to build a real "best friend" bond first. I don't like sarcastic banter—I just want funny, sweet, daily consistent communication and digital banter. I want a guy who actually wants to spend time together and proactively plans dates. I just need to see some real effort!

​The Logistics:

​Pace: Intimacy starts up once we are officially dating and the connection is there.

​Travel: I don’t drive, so you will need to be able to come out my way.

​Privacy: We can't do house calls because of my teenage daughter, but backseats, the yard at night, or your place all work great. I also love filming our chemistry together! 🎥

​Safety: Safe sex only. Condoms are required unless you've had a vasectomy. Absolutely no cheaters and no sleepovers.

​Think we’d click? Drop me a message with your name, age, location, and what you like to do for fun. You must include a clean selfie to get a reply! 😉

u/No_Estimate_6352 — 8 days ago