u/OkSorbet2138

MF4MF - how many times has the “couple” you’re chatting with turned out to be a single guy?

lol, this is Reddit, so I know what the answer is. But wanna hear your stories, please discuss in the comments. (FEELD is slightly better, but basically the same experience)

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u/OkSorbet2138 — 16 hours ago

[MF4MF] - Hershey / Elizabethtown, PA area

My wife (46 Asian female, few extra lbs) and I (46 white male) are seeking local fuckbuddies. Wife has a preference for younger guys. I am open to any age.

Send the following in your first response or you will be blocked & ignored:

Age, sex, orientation, location, exact hours of the shift you work, whether you have a vehicle or not, whether you can host or not.

Have shareable STI results from a clinic, or don’t message. “I’m clean” doesn’t count. “I haven’t been with anyone in years” doesn’t count either.

We will group text with you, don’t have discord or snap, not sending nudes, don’t ask. Just cuz you send a nude, doesn’t mean she will.

If she likes you she will reply. If you can’t verify you will be blocked. Don’t want to verify , don’t reply.

Last post had several dozen responses. We are looking for quality. No single males.

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u/OkSorbet2138 — 1 day ago

[MF4MF] - suburban Hershey, PA

My wife (46 Asian female, few extra lbs) and I (46 white male) are seeking local fuckbuddies. Wife has a preference for younger guys. I am open to any age. (No single males)

Send the following in your first response or you will be blocked & ignored:

Age, sex, orientation, location, exact hours of the shift you work, whether you have a vehicle or not, whether you can host or not.

Have shareable STI results from a clinic, or don’t message. “I’m clean” doesn’t count. “I haven’t been with anyone in years” doesn’t count either.

We will group text with you, don’t have discord or snap, not sending nudes, don’t ask. Just cuz you send a nude, doesn’t mean she will.

If she likes you she will reply. If you can’t verify you will be blocked. Don’t want to verify , don’t reply.

Last post had several dozen responses. We are looking for quality. No single males.

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u/OkSorbet2138 — 1 day ago

MF4MF - suburban Hershey, PA

My wife (46 Asian female, few extra lbs) and I (46 white male) are seeking local fuckbuddies. Wife has a preference for younger guys. I am open to any age.

Send the filling in your first response or you will be blocked & ignored:

Age, sex, orientation, location, exact hours of the shift you work, whether you have a vehicle or not, whether you can host or not.

Have shareable STI results from a clinic, or don’t message. “I’m clean” doesn’t count. “I haven’t been with anyone in years” doesn’t count either.

We will group text with you, don’t have discord or snap, not sending nudes, don’t ask. Just cuz you send a nude, doesn’t mean she will.

If she likes you she will reply. If you can’t verify you will be blocked. Don’t want to verify , don’t reply.

Last post had about 250+ responses. We are looking for quality. No single males.

u/OkSorbet2138 — 5 days ago

F4MF - suburban Hershey.

My wife (46 Asian female, few extra lbs) is seeking a fuckbuddy. Younger guys to the front.

Send the filling in your first response or you will be blocked & ignored:

Age, orientation, location, exact hours of the shift you work, whether you have a vehicle or not, whether you have your own place or not.

“Also tell me about your female partner”
Also include a truthful relationship status.

Have shareable STI results from a clinic, or don’t message. “I’m clean” doesn’t count. “I haven’t been with anyone in forever” doesn’t count either.

Will text with you, won’t have discord or snap, not sending nudes, don’t ask. Just cuz you send a nude, doesn’t mean she will.

If she likes you she will reply. If you can’t verify you will be blocked. Don’t want to verify , don’t reply.

Last post had about 250+ responses. We are looking for quality.

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u/OkSorbet2138 — 5 days ago

MF 4 MF - suburban Hershey, PA

Hey trying to get back into this lifestyle. 46 white male, 46 Asian female. Couple extra lbs.

Please send age, sex, location & orientation in first DM. No single males.

Must be willing to verify super early on. No nudes until verification. Not into sexting.

We love the outdoors trying new food spots and fucking! Soft or full okay.

Looking for fun couples to vibe with. No single males.

u/OkSorbet2138 — 8 days ago

46 MF 4 MF - Hershey, PA

Hey trying to get back into this lifestyle. 46 white male, 46 Asian female. Couple extra lbs.

send clothed sample and nude sample in dm, as well as ASL & orientation. No single males.

We love the outdoors trying new food spots and fucking!

Looking for fun couples to vibe with. No single males.

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u/OkSorbet2138 — 8 days ago

Against our better judgement- we are giving this another shot, lol. No single males.

White male & asian female, both 46. Live in suburban Hershey, PA. Down for NSA fun, dates, adventures or whatever. We don’t use anything other than a traditional 4-way group text, sorry.

If you are a couple & are interested- message us with your age, sex, location, and sexual orientation. Also rough schedule would help.

Example#1: “hi we are Mike (41) & Susan (42), live in York, and are both bi. Mike works in Baltimore m-f 9a-5p, Susan works in Hellam 8a-4p”

Example#2: “hi we are Joe (39) & Julia (57), live in Mount Joy. Joe is heteroflexible and Julia is bi. Joe works 2p-10p sun-Thursday & Julia is a stay at home mom.”

Example#3: “hey we are Mark & Karen, both 38, live in Bethel, PA. Mark is straight, Karen is bi-curious. Mark works overnights & Karen works part time weekdays doing babysitting”

must be willing & able to verify early on. This is a video chat via discord or selfie with you holding up a sign with both of our user names. Can’t verify? Don’t message.

No single males. No males whose wives don’t play. No couples where we have to “convince” the wife. No couples who are “moving slow”.

Willing to travel for quality, but the closer you are to Hershey the more likely it will work.

u/OkSorbet2138 — 22 days ago

Hey there! I’m a 46-year-old, 6’2” man with blue eyes and a dad bod. have a deep love for art, music, history, languages. culture, podcasts, six-hour YouTube video essays, and Law & Order (nothing beats a good trial). I’m fully vaxxed and slightly left-leaning. I am anti-conspiracy theory. While I don’t do any drugs, I do enjoy the occasional drink when at a winery.

About me: 

I thrive on love, support, care and praise—no discipline or punishment, but I do enjoy a little pain with my pleasure. I’m seeking a mutually respectful, supportive relationship with both physical and emotional intimacy. I’m not into age or race play, but I’m happy to share my full list of interests and limits. My love language is quality time and words of affirmation, whether that’s adventuring together, coexisting in the same space, or FaceTiming while we do our own thing. I also value my alone time, to protect from burnt-out due to society’s crushing weight of demands. Now give this boy some praise!

 

About you:

I’m looking for a woman (28-55, flexible) who is local (within a 30/45-minute drive, as I can occasionally host), adventurous, educated, and clean. You’re kind, respectful, and progressive, also bonus points if you’re a parent. You’re non-monogamous, loyal, and take pleasure in prioritizing your partner’s needs. Stability, sensuality, and a love of adventure are all highly appreciated.

 

What I’m seeking: 

I want a long-term connection built on a solid vanilla foundation (though definitely not vanilla in the bedroom). I’m not interested in casual flings—I value respect, support, and deep emotional and physical intimacy. Communication is essential, and independence is a must. I’m not searching for my “other half” because I’m whole as is. What I do want is a relationship rooted in friendship, where we can explore, be silly, enjoy our own independence, and still come together at the end of the day to cuddle, connect, and just be us.

I absolutely love cuddling & massage —it’s intimate, comforting, and brings a deep sense of care, safety, and peace. I adore the shared relief and pleasure that comes with it.

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u/OkSorbet2138 — 27 days ago