Advice needed
Hello everyone! This is a throw away account and need to get some advice. Im a single female and have a younger single brother who has been our support and bread winner ever since our dad passed away. After our dad passed away, we were not doing well financially and he started working full time on his business while being a full time student. Due to his hard work, we are now doing 100x times better than before. He’s been a great brother to me, always counted on him to show up when needed and been my emotional support through tough times. Now here comes the part im confused about and have no one to talk to.
About 2-3 weeks ago, we were just talking about random stuff one night and I brought up the topic of dating. Asked him about his type and he started listing things that I first felt was about me. Then he said something that tbh shocked me. He said that he wants to be with me and wants to make me his woman. He continued with that i have always made him a better person, a hard worker and his success is due to me. Said how he’ll do anything for me, treat me like a queen, buy me anything etc etc. NOW if he wasnt my brother 100% i would have fallen for him sooner. He is an amazing guy, great personality everything I want in my guy. At the time I said no and he changed topics but it remained with me. A part of me wants to give him a chance, be the woman he deserves and I get a great guy in return, but at the same time just forget about it due to being incest. Please help with making a decision as I’m hella confused and cant make a decision.