I love using discord as my main form of communication, once i get a decent sub i usually get them to switch over to discord but whenever a new one pops up in my server they’re honestly…broke….im so sick of it. my tribute fee is listed multiple times and these slow ass fucks can’t even read, they’re just ready to get straight to gooning. I love discord but i hate the subs
hey, i just had some questions on gaining momentum on x again. When i first started my followers grew pretty fast on there and subs approached me, but now i feel like im in a constant cycle of hunting them (which i dont mind, but i would love to see a sub approach again 💔)
are any other dommes having this problem or is it just the over saturation in general. as for the subs reading this, either tribute or leave the space.
yes i love blackmail, yes i love cbt, yes i love your money. but also love healthy relationships with my subs if they deserve it
i got a new sub just recently and he and I set up some boundary rules and such. He tributed but after that I didn’t expect any more sends because we had established that he would want to set up a debt contract later along with blackmail.
I thought the conversations were going well, it wasn’t just about financial domination. He began sending me little sends but as i stated before I was not expecting it.
I got a little busy but i did respond to the sends and thought it was sweet to be thought of even if i wasn’t actively there.
I later sent a message for him to fetch me some makeup from my list since i thought it would be ok to do so as he already sent me some stuff. He stated that he couldn’t and i backed off but he didn’t respond to my messages.
I later saw him ranting on X about dommes and I decided to reach out. He seemed upset and I asked if we could talk outside of the dynamic we set up and he just got ruder and it honestly concerned me a little.
I don’t understand what I did wrong in that scenario and I am sick of being treated like shit after trying my hardest as a domme.
I have my tribute set at $22.22, but recently i’ve been thinking of raising it. I know the broke subs won’t be able to afford it but i wanna be greedy.
idc, subs can come to me but i love the fun of hunting down a sub that lurks. i just think its fun to see them interact and then go hunt them.