u/Ok_Philosopher_8359

30 [M4F] #Germany/Online - Want to shape and mold an inexperienced girl

I'm looking for something pretty special and elusive that is hard to find, but when you find it, it's absolutely amazing. I'll jump straight in and tell you the 2 main things that are important to me:

  1. Something that's a bit deeper, not just based on kink. I want to like you and spend time together, share hobbies, etc. If you're someone who likes to just sext with random people, we're not compatible. Doesn't mean we have to get married but yeah...something deeper.
  2. I crave a peculiar combination between me being protective, possessive (if you're into that), caring, nurturing and sweet towards you and then using you in the most depraved ways, only to again cuddle you gently and tell you what a good girl you've been and how proud of you I am afterwards.

That's the gist of it. Without giving too much away, a few more details about who I am and who you might be. I'm a catch: modest; well paying job in Tech; highly independent and head-strong; curious and interested in lots of different things from psychology to science to silly reality shows; well travelled; got a good combination of in- and outdoor hobbies depending on what you prefer - or I can help get you out of your shell; fit and not unattractive; adventurous and spontaneous; well mannered and discrete - I'm a private person and seeing me on the street you wouldn't expect this side.

Kinks. Let's explore together, but I'll say that everything is on the table. My interests are a mile long , but as a general trend I like everything taboo, dirty, a secret little world just the two of us share. BUT, as I said above, I also want to take care of you, caress you gently, help you do your hw, be your emotional support and help make life easier for you. Even though I might want to use you in inhumane ways some times, at the end of the day you're mine and safe. Again, all of this is up for debate (not just the if, but also the degree) but I'll just drop some random letters that you can choose from to let me know where your preferences lie: DDLG, CGL, CNC, TPE, rope play, pet play, bathroom denial, orgasm denial!, micromanagement, ... and so much more. Can't scare you away just yet, can I ;).

About you: Probably shy; I like inexperience; might have coloured hair or look completely innocent on the outside; I have a thing for emo/goth/lolita fashion; you are someone who craves giving up control, strong desire to please, be "good" and to have someone take care of you - you might even be strong and independent to the outside world; if you have insecurities/mental health issues/anxiety/depression - do reach out to me! From past experiences I know that these things particularly trigger my desire to protect, support and ravage you; 18-27. Introduce yourself, including height and weight.

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u/Ok_Philosopher_8359 — 8 days ago

30 [M4F] Filipina into an age gap relationship?

Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, maybe I watch too much 90 Day Fiancé, but there's something really appealing about the idea of traveling half way across the world to meet a girl you've connected with. Right?

Here's the plan:

-> we get to know each other online through text, vc's for ~1 month

-> we meet in Manila (I could also be convinced to stay at Cebu City, or some beach resort if you think there are any nice ones)

-> ideally, you stay with me for some time (few days? a week(s)?) - but if you have obligations like work we can figure something out too

-> ... -> we live happily ever after (or something like that...)

I like a wide range of indoor + outdoor hobbies so we'll never run out of adventures (foodie, cinema, museums, nature, ...). If you could be my gym buddy that would be the cherry on top.

Basics: Well-built slim/fit/muscular, dress well and a fraghead, very clean, 185 cm, European (white), working in Tech, ambitious and independent, travel a lot, more dominant and like to take the lead.

You: I prefer younger, slim women, clean and takes care of yourself. I like women with personality, who are educated and can be independent (but maybe you don't want to be and would like to explore a submissive side)

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u/Ok_Philosopher_8359 — 11 days ago

30 [M4F] Filipina into an age gap relationship?

Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, maybe I watch too much 90 Day Fiancé, but there's something really appealing about the idea of traveling half way across the world to meet a girl you've connected with. Right?

Here's the plan:

-> we get to know each other online through text, vc's for ~1 month

-> we meet in Manila (I could also be convinced to stay at Cebu City, or some beach resort if you think there are any nice ones)

-> ideally, you stay with me for some time (few days? a week(s)?) - but if you have obligations like work we can figure something out too

-> ... -> we live happily ever after (or something like that...)

I like a wide range of indoor + outdoor hobbies so we'll never run out of adventures (foodie, cinema, museums, nature, ...). If you could be my gym buddy that would be the cherry on top.

Basics: Well-built slim/fit/muscular, dress well and a fraghead, very clean, 185 cm, European (white), working in Tech, ambitious and independent, travel a lot, more dominant and like to take the lead.

You: I prefer younger, slim women, clean and takes care of yourself. I like women with personality, who are educated and can be independent (but maybe you don't want to be and would like to explore a submissive side)

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u/Ok_Philosopher_8359 — 14 days ago

Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, maybe I watch too much 90 Day Fiancé, but there's something really appealing about the idea of traveling half way across the world to meet a girl you've connected with. Right?

Here's the plan:

-> we get to know each other online through text, vc's for ~1 month

-> we meet in Manila (I could also be convinced to stay at Cebu City, or some beach resort if you think there are any nice ones)

-> ideally, you stay with me for some time (few days? a week(s)?) - but if you have obligations like work we can figure something out too

-> ... -> we live happily ever after (or something like that...)

I like a wide range of indoor + outdoor hobbies so we'll never run out of adventures (foodie, cinema, museums, nature, ...). If you could be my gym buddy that would be the cherry on top.

Basics: Well-built slim/fit/muscular, dress well and a fraghead, very clean, 185 cm, European (white), working in Tech, ambitious and independent, travel a lot, more dominant and like to take the lead.

You: I prefer younger, slim women, clean and takes care of yourself. I like women with personality, who are educated and can be independent (but maybe you don't want to be and would like to explore a submissive side)

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u/Ok_Philosopher_8359 — 19 days ago

I'm looking for something pretty special and elusive that is hard to find, but when you find it, it's absolutely amazing. I'll jump straight in and tell you the 2 main things that are important to me:

  1. Something that's a bit deeper, not just based on kink. I want to like you and spend time together, share hobbies, etc. If you're someone who likes to just sext with random people, we're not compatible. Doesn't mean we have to get married but yeah...something deeper.
  2. I crave a peculiar combination between me being protective, possessive (if you're into that), caring, nurturing and sweet towards you and then using you in the most depraved ways, only to again cuddle you gently and tell you what a good girl you've been and how proud of you I am afterwards.

That's the gist of it. Without giving too much away, a few more details about who I am and who you might be. I'm a catch: modest; well paying job in Tech; highly independent and head-strong; curious and interested in lots of different things from psychology to science to silly reality shows; well travelled; got a good combination of in- and outdoor hobbies depending on what you prefer - or I can help get you out of your shell; fit and not unattractive; adventurous and spontaneous; well mannered and discrete - I'm a private person and seeing me on the street you wouldn't expect this side.

Kinks. Let's explore together, but I'll say that everything is on the table. My interests are a mile long , but as a general trend I like everything taboo, dirty, a secret little world just the two of us share. BUT, as I said above, I also want to take care of you, caress you gently, help you do your hw, be your emotional support and help make life easier for you. Even though I might want to use you in inhumane ways some times, at the end of the day you're mine and safe. Again, all of this is up for debate (not just the if, but also the degree) but I'll just drop some random letters that you can choose from to let me know where your preferences lie: DDLG, CGL, CNC, TPE, rope play, pet play, bathroom denial, orgasm denial!, micromanagement, ... and so much more. Can't scare you away just yet, can I ;).

About you: Probably shy; I like inexperience; might have coloured hair or look completely innocent on the outside; I have a thing for emo/goth/lolita fashion; you are someone who craves giving up control, strong desire to please, be "good" and to have someone take care of you - you might even be strong and independent to the outside world; if you have insecurities/mental health issues/anxiety/depression - do reach out to me! From past experiences I know that these things particularly trigger my desire to protect, support and ravage you; 18-27. Introduce yourself, including height and weight.

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u/Ok_Philosopher_8359 — 20 days ago

Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, maybe I watch too much 90 Day Fiancé, but there's something really appealing about the idea of traveling half way across the world to meet a girl you've connected with. Right?

Here's the plan:

-> we get to know each other online through text, vc's for ~1 month

-> we meet in Manila (I could also be convinced to stay at Cebu City, or some beach resort if you think there are any nice ones)

-> ideally, you stay with me for some time (few days? a week(s)?) - but if you have obligations like work we can figure something out too

-> ... -> we live happily ever after (or something like that...)

I like a wide range of indoor + outdoor hobbies so we'll never run out of adventures (foodie, cinema, museums, nature, ...). If you could be my gym buddy that would be the cherry on top.

Basics: Well-built slim/fit/muscular, dress well and a fraghead, very clean, 185 cm, European (white), working in Tech, ambitious and independent, travel a lot, more dominant and like to take the lead.

You: I prefer younger, slim women, clean and takes care of yourself. I like women with personality, who are educated and can be independent (but maybe you don't want to be and would like to explore a submissive side)

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u/Ok_Philosopher_8359 — 21 days ago