u/Ok_Speaker2350

Omg so I am so stupid last night after work I was fting a guy drunk and he said he was coming to my apartment!!! Because he’s on a work trip here from Florida, I do not want this man in my house I barley remember even calling him all my cash is here and I do not know this man please can someone help me write a text to this guy being like sorry I can’t see you. He’s not coming here for me but he’s literllly on the flight right now and I don’t remember if I gave him my address. 😭😭 I feel bad he’s sweet but I barely even text this man like I don’t know him and he knows I dance to I’m just freaking out. I feel bad to but omg
Ps:
Just some clarification this isn’t a guy I meet at the club or working I got drunk after work and was texting a mutual who had me on insta and he was coming to my city. I think I should have clarified that in my post. I was more saying I feel so stupid for inviting him over because I don’t know him and only have one friend in common with him over to my apartment where all my cash is.
I’ve never hung out with clients at work outside of the club.

I saw some recent posts on here about this and I’m starting to feel it to. Combined with extras being done in the per song room I don’t know what to do anymore honestly. This is the closest club to me I just don’t know any more! I’ve genuinely never looked better but guys will be down for dances then see a guy getting a hand job openly stop dancing w me and go to her!!

Hey guys so I posted this on an advice forum thing but I need real ass advice from other dancers because more things have happened and I’m just worried af now.
So I just wrote out all the weird shit that had happened over the past two ish weeks:

1. My buzzer ringing at weird hours of the night (thought it was a malfunction issue, called the owners they came and checked it out and said it was fine)
2. I ignore it then a couple days go by I invite my friend over a couple days ago and my curtains are kinda open and I look up and a fucking man’s face is just peering into the curtain crack watching my friend and I play a board game. I didn’t recognize him because he ran away so fast before I could even comprehend what I saw!!! But I got up fast as hell and saw a man running again but this time in broad day light. I felt like I was going crazy but my friend saw his face as well.
3. Then two days passed and comes to tonight the first door to the apt complex that was previously banged on, the whole lock part of the door is completely broken literally hanging out of the wall!!!!
4. I genuinely don’t know if this is weird or I’m just being overly cautious (this all happened in the span of like two weeks) and before this stuff started happening I literally had a feeling like I

was

1. being watching. Any advice on how to protect myself would be greatly appreciated because I just don’t know what to do or even if all these things are correlated.

So yesterday a super basic looking guy did a champagne room with me he was polite but I just got a little weird vibe and he had a distinct smell. Then I swear on my life the same man comes back in a completely different outfit and a hat on. He comes up to me and asks for some dances I say yes and then as I’m dancing on him I realize it’s legit the same man, like same smell everything. He told me two different names😭😂 like thanks for coming back but like why are you pretending to be a different person, he wasn’t drunk either. Just such a weird thing to do😂