18F - Seeking a Partner (18-23 guys only)
As said in the title, I am looking for a potential partner, I'm not looking to fuck around with someone who is still finding themselves. I'll start right away with my deal breakers so I can spare you the time of reading to the end to learn about them. I do not want someone who vapes and/or smokes cigarettes, if it's only weed idc but I will not smoke with you. I do not want someone who drinks often, if it's on occasion, like once a month or on rare outings, idc but I will not drink with you. I do not want someone who is still finding themselves, I am a virgin and I am only going to give myself to someone who actually wants to keep me around as a partner. If you have a body count of over 5, find yourself someone else, I am not going to get with someone who has been around. If you are over the age of 23 or about to turn 24, find someone your age. And lastly, if you're a known asshole or have long lasting anger issues, move on, I am not going to get myself into a relationship where I have to chance to get beaten later on when you lose your temper.
Okay, now onto the about me section! I am in California and I'm a college student. I am an introvert; I have sever social anxiety and regular anxiety; I am very depressed; I have minor dyslexia. I will always attempt to stay positive, but when I am feeling particularly down, I will be negative, not towards you but towards myself. Sarcasm tends to go right over my head, idk why but if you're not obvious about it I will miss the joke! I am very tolerable, I will always try to stay out of the way if I feel like I am a bother, but I will put up with just about anything as long as it's not harmful behavior!
I am very quiet, I am okay with sitting in call not talking if we're both comfortable, but if we do that every single day, I will get bored and a little withdrawn. I am very open with my past, habits, intensions, and anything about me if you ask, I expect the same from you. Feel free to ask more about me in DMs!
I love being flirted with, keep that in mind!
And for those who will ask. . . I am 5'6" tall, weigh just under 200lb (around 185 idk), I have never shared a bed with a man before, and I do not have a skincare or makeup routine. And yes you read that right, I do not were makeup, if that's a deal breaker move on, if someone is going to like me, they need to like who I am without a mask on. I have a curvy body type with a bit of thigh and belly fat, want a skinner girl than move on. I will do what I can to match your interest and meet you on your level, but you will lose my interest if you do not do the same back to me.
Here's what I'm looking for! I don't care for your appearance, but if you're 400+lb and not trying to change, I will care and will be uninterested. I want someone who isn't an asshole, someone who cares about my wellbeing and won't try to change me to their satisfaction. I'll say it again, if I learn or get the feeling you're just looking to fuck around and leave, I'll ghost. I want a man who is inside of the USA, if you're in another country, find someone else. I want someone who is consistent, if you forget to reply, it's fine, but if you forget for 24+ hours over and over again, it's not fine. I want someone who isn't overly sexual, if you are sometimes, I'm fine with it and might like it, but if it's every single time we hang out, I am no longer fine with it. Don't pester me for photos, don't get my hopes up, don't lead me on, and do not lie to me unless it's a harmless white-lie. I need someone who isn't still a child, if all you do is make practical jokes, pranks, or very dumb decisions you will lose my interest rather quickly, but if you only do that occasionally I might find it amusing. Be open with what you want or need me to do or say, if you're upset and need comfort, tell me you need me to listen, I will do my best. Last thing, please be open about your interests, if it comes up don't be afraid to admit what shows, music, or games you like/dislike, I genuinely will not find it weird unless you make it weird, I love learning about people who interest me.
Lastly! I will only answer DMs that state your age and intentions! Say something about yourself, what state you live in and something you think will catch my interest, tell me what you want right away, friends first or straight to calling me your girlfriend? I will not reply to comments unless they're general questions. We'll talk in DMs first then move to Discord, bc I am comfortable with that flatform, no picture for the first month unless it's pets or scenery photos. I will not give you my name until you've proven trustworthy, until then I will give a nickname.