Please read post — looking for wholesome dad energy to chat
Hey 👋
37, autistic, gamer, happily partnered and looking for genuine connection and conversation with older guys who have that calm, caring “dad energy”.
Not looking for anything weird or heavily sexual — I just really value kindness, affection, reassurance, feeling safe around someone and having honest chats with emotionally warm and grounded people.
A little harmless flirting is totally okay 😅 but it’s definitely not the end goal. I’m much more interested in genuine connection, supportive friendship and wholesome affection.
I’m into RPGs, fantasy, sci-fi, horror, dinosaurs, music, gaming nights and random late-night conversations that somehow turn deep 😂
I’ve always naturally gravitated toward protective, gentle, reassuring personalities — the kind of person who checks in on you, gives good advice, likes hugs 🤗 and makes people feel comfortable being themselves.
Would especially love hearing from:
- older gay/bi men
- bears/dads
- gamers
- nurturing personalities
- affectionate but respectful people
I don’t mind too many emojis either 😂
Not looking to replace my relationship, just miss having strong supportive male friendships and wholesome connection.
DMs open 👋 Please say your age and location when messaging. UK or European time zones preferred because it makes chatting easier 😊