u/OrdinaryInfamous212

Im looking for advice and hopefully some can help. I 34m and wife 31f. Have had a fantasy that keeps coming up in the bedroom about adding another. I adore my wife and she gets my motor running, I’m actually the one who brought it up. I think seeing her with myself and another would be something. And different variations of that scenario. We are worried about the post scene clarity and the after affects it might have. We’ve been married 12 years 13 together. And have a absolute wonderful marriage and sex life. Just something that keeps popping up as forms of dirty talk that we both enjoy. Just curious how to cautiously proceed or if we need to just keep it dirty talk.