I am not sure if there is a better discussion thread for this kind of topic, as most posts here seem to be personal advertisements ☺️ but here goes!
I 37F and my husband 37M have a pretty healthy and dynamic monogamous sex life. Recently though I have been finding myself fantasising a lot and watching a lot of 🌽 regarding having MFF and MFMF sex. I have always been fairly open, and have had a MFF 3some years ago and enjoyed it.
But when I met my now husband, I thought he might be into swinging as we met through a pretty fruity hiking singles group. He suggests he is not, but my suspicions tell me that he was at least curious (or some may argue, just a man 🤔)! I wasn't fussed either way, I have always quite liked the idea of exploration later.
Now we've joked about stuff, but he seems to be set against the idea of 'sharing' me, contradtictory to what my assumed interests of his are, and even gets very jealous about the idea of me being with another woman, let alone a man!
I would really like to explore MFF or MFMF dynamic, as there a few things i would love to do! (Including a swingers/sex club with him) but I don't know how to bring this up with him without ruining our marriage!
Advice on how to approach this is appreciated 😛