u/OwnIllustrator1609

31 [M4F] #Chicago – Looking for a real FWB, makeout, sex, tons of boob play and a actual friendship

I'm 31, male, in Albany Park, and I'm tired of the weird middle ground between "random hookup" and "dating with pressure." What I actually want is a genuine FWB—someone to hang out with, watch a movie, grab a drink, and then also make out and have sex without it all the codependency and neediness.

Not looking for a girlfriend. Not looking to catch feelings But also not looking to treat you like a stranger I use and leave. I want the "friends" part to be real. That means: we can laugh together, text each other dumb stuff during the week, be comfortable chilling on a couch, and then also be comfortable moving to the bedroom when it feels right.

Physically: I'm into making out a lot, touching, exploring, good chemistry. If we end up just making out for an hour the first time, cool. If things go further, also cool. If nothing happens and we just enjoy each others company cool. Im pretty cool to just hang with, I’m funny, sarcastic and I like just having good conversations and enjoying someone’s company.

About me:
31, live alone, I like to talk, like to go for walks, swim, bike, write, I’m into alot of things honestly and I’m actually pretty open minded and will do pretty much anything as long as it doesn’t get me arrested 🙃

You should be:

· In or near Albany Park / north side
· Looking for something ongoing, not just a one-time thing
· Down to actually be friends, not just a booty call
· Around my age range (mid 20s to late 30s is fine)
· enjoy boob play and always be ready for that shirt to come off.

If this sounds like what you've been looking for too, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what part of the city you're in.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 15 hours ago

31 [M4F] #Chicago – Looking for a real FWB makeout, sex, tons of boob play and a actual friendship

I'm 31, male, in Albany Park, and I'm tired of the weird middle ground between "random hookup" and "dating with pressure." What I actually want is a genuine FWB—someone to hang out with, watch a movie, grab a drink, and then also make out and have sex without it all the codependency and neediness.

Not looking for a girlfriend. Not looking to catch feelings But also not looking to treat you like a stranger I use and leave. I want the "friends" part to be real. That means: we can laugh together, text each other dumb stuff during the week, be comfortable chilling on a couch, and then also be comfortable moving to the bedroom when it feels right.

Physically: I'm into making out a lot, touching, exploring, good chemistry. If we end up just making out for an hour the first time, cool. If things go further, also cool. If nothing happens and we just enjoy each others company cool. Im pretty cool to just hang with, I’m funny, sarcastic and I like just having good conversations and enjoying someone’s company.

About me:
31, live alone, I like to talk, like to go for walks, swim, bike, write, I’m into alot of things honestly and I’m actually pretty open minded and will do pretty much anything as long as it doesn’t get me arrested 🙃

You should be:

· In or near Albany Park / north side
· Looking for something ongoing, not just a one-time thing
· Down to actually be friends, not just a booty call
· Around my age range (mid 20s to late 30s is fine)
· enjoy boob play and always be ready for that shirt to come off.

If this sounds like what you've been looking for too, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what part of the city you're in.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 2 days ago

31 [M4F] #Chicago – Looking for a real FWB makeout, sex, tons of boob play and a actual friendship

I'm 31, male, in Albany Park, and I'm tired of the weird middle ground between "random hookup" and "dating with pressure." What I actually want is a genuine FWB—someone to hang out with, watch a movie, grab a drink, and then also make out and have sex without it all the codependency and neediness.

Not looking for a girlfriend. Not looking to catch feelings But also not looking to treat you like a stranger I use and leave. I want the "friends" part to be real. That means: we can laugh together, text each other dumb stuff during the week, be comfortable chilling on a couch, and then also be comfortable moving to the bedroom when it feels right.

Physically: I'm into making out a lot, touching, exploring, good chemistry. If we end up just making out for an hour the first time, cool. If things go further, also cool. If nothing happens and we just enjoy each others company cool. Im pretty cool to just hang with, I’m funny, sarcastic and I like just having good conversations and enjoying someone’s company.

About me:
31, live alone, I like to talk, like to go for walks, swim, bike, write, I’m into alot of things honestly and I’m actually pretty open minded and will do pretty much anything as long as it doesn’t get me arrested 🙃

You should be:

· In or near Albany Park / north side
· Looking for something ongoing, not just a one-time thing
· Down to actually be friends, not just a booty call
· Around my age range (mid 20s to late 30s is fine)
· enjoy boob play and always be ready for that shirt to come off.

If this sounds like what you've been looking for too, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what part of the city you're in.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 3 days ago

31 [M4F] #Albanypark - Looking for a real FWB makeout, sex, actual friendship.

I'm 31, male, in Albany Park, and I'm tired of the weird middle ground between "random hookup" and "dating with pressure." What I actually want is a genuine FWB—someone to hang out with, watch a movie, grab a drink, and then also make out and have sex without it all the codependency and neediness.

Not looking for a girlfriend. Not looking to catch feelings But also not looking to treat you like a stranger I use and leave. I want the "friends" part to be real. That means: we can laugh together, text each other dumb stuff during the week, be comfortable chilling on a couch, and then also be comfortable moving to the bedroom when it feels right.

Physically: I'm into making out a lot, touching, exploring, good chemistry. If we end up just making out for an hour the first time, cool. If things go further, also cool. If nothing happens and we just enjoy each others company cool. Im pretty cool to just hang with, I’m funny, sarcastic and I like just having good conversations and enjoying someone’s company.

About me:
31, live alone, I like to talk, like to go for walks, swim, bike, write, I’m into alot of things honestly and I’m actually pretty open minded and will do pretty much anything as long as it doesn’t get me arrested 🙃

You should be:

· In or near Albany Park / north side
· Looking for something ongoing, not just a one-time thing
· Down to actually be friends, not just a booty call
· Around my age range (mid 20s to late 30s is fine)
· enjoy boob play and always be ready for that shirt to come off.

If this sounds like what you've been looking for too, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what part of the city you're in.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 4 days ago

31 [M4F] #Chicago – Looking for a real FWB makeout, sex, tons of boob play and a actual friendship

I'm 31, male, in Albany Park, and I'm tired of the weird middle ground between "random hookup" and "dating with pressure." What I actually want is a genuine FWB—someone to hang out with, watch a movie, grab a drink, and then also make out and have sex without it all the codependency and neediness.

Not looking for a girlfriend. Not looking to catch feelings But also not looking to treat you like a stranger I use and leave. I want the "friends" part to be real. That means: we can laugh together, text each other dumb stuff during the week, be comfortable chilling on a couch, and then also be comfortable moving to the bedroom when it feels right.

Physically: I'm into making out a lot, touching, exploring, good chemistry. If we end up just making out for an hour the first time, cool. If things go further, also cool. If nothing happens and we just enjoy each others company cool. Im pretty cool to just hang with, I’m funny, sarcastic and I like just having good conversations and enjoying someone’s company.

About me:
31, live alone, I like to talk, like to go for walks, swim, bike, write, I’m into alot of things honestly and I’m actually pretty open minded and will do pretty much anything as long as it doesn’t get me arrested 🙃

You should be:

· In or near Albany Park / north side
· Looking for something ongoing, not just a one-time thing
· Down to actually be friends, not just a booty call
· Around my age range (mid 20s to late 30s is fine)
· enjoy boob play and always be ready for that shirt to come off.

If this sounds like what you've been looking for too, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what part of the city you're in.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 4 days ago

[M4F] RP that bleeds into real life a little — Interactive

I am 18+ and all participants are also 18+

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things and I’d get a pic or short video to match the scene. I can also do pics and vids as well if you’d like so it’s mutual

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you show a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you show a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three short sentences.

You
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, you know where to find me

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 5 days ago

[M4F] RP that bleeds into real life a little — Interactive

I am 18+ and all participants are also 18+

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things and I’d get a pic or short video to match the scene. I can also do pics and vids as well if you’d like so it’s mutual

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you show a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you show a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three short sentences.

You
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, you know where to find me

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 5 days ago

31 [M4F] #Chicago – Looking for a real FWB makeout, sex, tons of boob play and a actual friendship

I'm 31, male, in Albany Park, and I'm tired of the weird middle ground between "random hookup" and "dating with pressure." What I actually want is a genuine FWB—someone to hang out with, watch a movie, grab a drink, and then also make out and have sex without it all the codependency and neediness.

Not looking for a girlfriend. Not looking to catch feelings But also not looking to treat you like a stranger I use and leave. I want the "friends" part to be real. That means: we can laugh together, text each other dumb stuff during the week, be comfortable chilling on a couch, and then also be comfortable moving to the bedroom when it feels right.

Physically: I'm into making out a lot, touching, exploring, good chemistry. If we end up just making out for an hour the first time, cool. If things go further, also cool. If nothing happens and we just enjoy each others company cool. Im pretty cool to just hang with, I’m funny, sarcastic and I like just having good conversations and enjoying someone’s company.

About me:
31, live alone, I like to talk, like to go for walks, swim, bike, write, I’m into alot of things honestly and I’m actually pretty open minded and will do pretty much anything as long as it doesn’t get me arrested 🙃

You should be:

· In or near Albany Park / north side
· Looking for something ongoing, not just a one-time thing
· Down to actually be friends, not just a booty call
· Around my age range (mid 20s to late 30s is fine)
· enjoy boob play and always be ready for that shirt to come off.

If this sounds like what you've been looking for too, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what part of the city you're in.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 6 days ago

31 [M4F] #online - RP that bleeds into real life a little — pics/vids, submissive role

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things and I’d get a pic or short video to match the scene. I can also do pics and vids as well if you’d like so it’s mutual

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you show a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you show a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: 30s male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three short sentences.

You:

· 21+
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, you know where to find me

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 7 days ago

[M4F] RP that bleeds into real life a little — pics/vids, submissive role

I am 18 and all participants are 18+.

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things and I’d get a pic or short video to match the scene. I can also do pics and vids as well if you’d like so it’s mutual

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you show a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you show a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three short sentences.

You
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, you know where to find me

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

You and James have been dating for the last 4 years. He just recently got accepted into college across the country and you got accepted here to play basketball. He’s upset that you don’t wanna give up your dreams and go with him. You guys haven’t broken up yet but he has been very distant and irritated with everyone. I’m Dustin James little brother and me and you are cool I wouldn’t say great friends but we hangout sometimes when James leaves you hanging on the couch by yourself. Well last week James pissed you off while you guys were swimming and while he was going inside I was coming out. I was gonna go back inside and you asked me to join you in the pool. I climb in and we begin to chat a little and my eyes wander towards your chest. I think you noticed and I got pretty red. It made you feel good like it was the first time you’ve been seen in a while. The whole time we’re talking you’re making sure to keep my eyes at your chest by adjusting your top or jumping up and down. You notice me flustered and laugh in your head. You start to look at me as well. “Wow maybe I’m dating the shitty brother” you think to yourself. Eventually James comes back outside and I get out so the two of you can talk. It’s been about a week and. I haven’t heard from you.

You’re home bored and just got home from work. You climb the stairs to you’re room and then throw your bag on the floor and jump into bed with you’re work clothes still on. You open snap and go to snap James. You take a picture that you’d only + to you’re bf (could be teasing or just a kissy face or a pic that says something you’d only tell you’re bf whatever you want it to be just be creative and like it was meant for you’re bf) after you take the picture you go to press + and you see my name.. you hesitate a minute before you post it to me hoping I open it and think it was a mistake\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* TASK ARE GIVEN IN (These) so whenever I have a task or want a picture it’ll be in (these) now before we start any questions?

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 7 days ago

31 [M4F] RP that bleeds into real life a little. Roles and instructions listed below

I am 18 and all participants are 18+.

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things and I’d get a pic or short video to match the scene. I can also do pics and vids as well if you’d like so it’s mutual

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you show a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you show a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three short sentences.

You
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, you know where to find me

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

You and James have been dating for the last 4 years. He just recently got accepted into college across the country and you got accepted here to play basketball. He’s upset that you don’t wanna give up your dreams and go with him. You guys haven’t broken up yet but he has been very distant and irritated with everyone. I’m Dustin James little brother and me and you are cool I wouldn’t say great friends but we hangout sometimes when James leaves you hanging on the couch by yourself. Well last week James pissed you off while you guys were swimming and while he was going inside I was coming out. I was gonna go back inside and you asked me to join you in the pool. I climb in and we begin to chat a little and my eyes wander towards your chest. I think you noticed and I got pretty red. It made you feel good like it was the first time you’ve been seen in a while. The whole time we’re talking you’re making sure to keep my eyes at your chest by adjusting your top or jumping up and down. You notice me flustered and laugh in your head. You start to look at me as well. “Wow maybe I’m dating the shitty brother” you think to yourself. Eventually James comes back outside and I get out so the two of you can talk. It’s been about a week and. I haven’t heard from you.

You’re home bored and just got home from work. You climb the stairs to you’re room and then throw your bag on the floor and jump into bed with you’re work clothes still on. You open SC and go to message James. You take a picture that you’d only + to you’re bf (could be teasing or just a kissy face or a pic that says something you’d only tell you’re bf whatever you want it to be just be creative and like it was meant for you’re bf) after you take the picture you go to press + and you see my name.. you hesitate a minute before you post it to me hoping I open it and think it was a mistake* TASK ARE GIVEN IN (These) so whenever I have a task or want a picture it’ll be in (these) now before we start any questions?

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 7 days ago

[M4F] RP that bleeds into real life a little — pics/vids, submissive role

I am 18 and all participants are 18+.

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things and I’d get a pic or short video to match the scene. I can also do pics and vids as well if you’d like so it’s mutual

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you show a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you show a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three short sentences.

You
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, you know where to find me

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

You and James have been dating for the last 4 years. He just recently got accepted into college across the country and you got accepted here to play basketball. He’s upset that you don’t wanna give up your dreams and go with him. You guys haven’t broken up yet but he has been very distant and irritated with everyone. I’m Dustin James little brother and me and you are cool I wouldn’t say great friends but we hangout sometimes when James leaves you hanging on the couch by yourself. Well last week James pissed you off while you guys were swimming and while he was going inside I was coming out. I was gonna go back inside and you asked me to join you in the pool. I climb in and we begin to chat a little and my eyes wander towards your chest. I think you noticed and I got pretty red. It made you feel good like it was the first time you’ve been seen in a while. The whole time we’re talking you’re making sure to keep my eyes at your chest by adjusting your top or jumping up and down. You notice me flustered and laugh in your head. You start to look at me as well. “Wow maybe I’m dating the shitty brother” you think to yourself. Eventually James comes back outside and I get out so the two of you can talk. It’s been about a week and. I haven’t heard from you.

You’re home bored and just got home from work. You climb the stairs to you’re room and then throw your bag on the floor and jump into bed with you’re work clothes still on. You open snap and go to snap James. You take a picture that you’d only + to you’re bf (could be teasing or just a kissy face or a pic that says something you’d only tell you’re bf whatever you want it to be just be creative and like it was meant for you’re bf) after you take the picture you go to press + and you see my name.. you hesitate a minute before you post it to me hoping I open it and think it was a mistake\\\\\\\* TASK ARE GIVEN IN (These) so whenever I have a task or want a picture it’ll be in (these) now before we start any questions?

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 7 days ago

31 (M4F) #Chicago #Online – Looking for an online sub to explore being a dom with (friendship + dynamic)

I'm 31, male, and relatively new to being on the dom side of things. I've realized I really enjoy the dynamic—the trust, the control, the structure—but I don't want it to feel like a scripted scene or just a kink dispenser. What I'm really looking for is an online friend first, who also happens to be submissive, so we can explore this together in a way that feels natural and real.

Not looking for 24/7 or anything intense right away. More like: we chat throughout the day, we click as people, and within that friendship, I take the lead. You trust me to make small decisions for you, give you gentle (or not so gentle) directions, and help you feel safe letting go. In return, you get consistency, attention, and someone who actually cares about your boundaries and well-being.

Limits and safe words are non-negotiable. We talk about what you like, what you don't, and I'll never push past that. You can always say no to anything, anytime, no guilt.

A bit about me: chill, communicative, good sense of humor, not the type to get angry or ghost. I like building tension, giving tasks, and knowing you're thinking about me during your day. I'm not into heavy pain, blood, or anything extreme—more into control, obedience, praise, light degradation if you're into it, and that quiet power exchange.

You should be:

· Female, sub-leaning (experienced or curious, both fine)
· Looking for a genuine connection, not just a one-night scene
· Comfortable voice chatting eventually (not right away)
· Down to be open about what you want and need

If this sounds like something you'd want to try, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself—your experience level, what you're hoping for, and a favorite hobby outside of kink. Let's see if we click.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 7 days ago

31 [M4F] #online - RP that bleeds into real life a little — pics/vids, submissive role

I am 18+ and all participants are also 18+

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things and I’d get a pic or short video to match the scene. I can also do pics and vids as well if you’d like so it’s mutual

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you show a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you show a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: 30s male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three short sentences.

You:

· 21+
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, you know where to find me

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 10 days ago

31 [M4F] #online - RP that bleeds into real life a little — pics/vids, submissive role

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First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things and I’d get a pic or short video to match the scene. I can also do pics and vids as well if you’d like so it’s mutual

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you show a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you show a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: 30s male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three short sentences.

You:

· 21+
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, you know where to find me

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 10 days ago

31 [M4F] #illinois #online - RP that bleeds into real life a little — pics/vids, submissive role and includes you’re boobs

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things irl and send me a pic or short video to match the scene.

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you send a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you send a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: 30s male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three messages.

You:

· 21+
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable sending non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, message me with:

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 10 days ago

31 [M4F] #illinois #online - RP that bleeds into real life a little — pics/vids, submissive role

First I’ll say no face/nudity, that is not what I’m looking for at least right away. I like to build up to intense through deep story telling and see what happens.

Okay so I've had this idea for a while. I want to do a roleplay where the stuff happening in the story isn't just words — sometimes you actually do small things irl and send me a pic or short video to match the scene.

Nothing crazy. No face, no nudity. Just things like:

· Your character gets told to sit on the floor → you send a quick pic of you sitting on your floor (clothed, from shoulders down).
· You're told to wait → you send a video of your hands resting in your lap.
· You're told to look down → a shot of your chin tilted toward your chest.

It makes the RP feel more real and immersive. Like the dynamic actually exists outside the doc for a second.

I'm looking for someone who's submissive and likes being bossed around in the story — told what to do, given orders, that kind of vibe. You'd need to be okay with me occasionally asking for those small real-world tasks tied to the scene. But we'd talk limits first and you can always say no to any specific request.

The RP itself can be whatever — fantasy, modern, supernatural, even just two characters in a tense dynamic. I like building something together, not just writing smut (though some heat is fine if it fits).

About me: 30s male, literate but not crazy about post length, more about quality and energy. I like someone who puts in effort but doesn't burn out after three messages.

You:

· 21+
· Submissive-leaning and into being given directions in the RP
· Comfortable sending non-nude, no-face pics/vids (again, I'm talking clothed, faceless, simple stuff)
· Down to chat a bit to make sure we click

If you're interested, message me with:

· What kind of RP settings you like
· How comfortable you are with the pics/vids thing (just be honest — totally fine if you're nervous but curious)

Not looking to rush. Just hoping to find one person who thinks this sounds as fun as I do.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 10 days ago

31 [M4F] #Albanypark - Just looking for a cool connection, no pressure, let's see where it goes

I'm a 31-year-old guy living alone in Albany Park, and honestly I'd just love to find someone fun and easygoing to hang out with. No expectations, no chasing anything serious just good company. If we vibe and something happens naturally (like a makeout session on the couch or a late night walk), cool. If not, that's cool too.

A little about me: I'm big on casual, real connections. I enjoy one-on-one hangouts or small groups where conversation flows and it’s not always small talk. I don't really drink, but I'm always down for a swim, a bike ride, or just walking around the neighborhood talking about everything and nothing. I cook pretty well when I'm motivated, so let’s motivate each other and cook new recipes or meal prep. I'm into finding new music and sharing playlists, and I've been getting into random creative stuff like writing and learning basic piano and drums. I also genuinely like hearing what makes people light up so if you have a niche hobby or a weird obsession, I'm all ears. I’m easy going. Pretty much open minded to anything I’ll try anything once but I actually mean it.

Looking for a cool chick (your words, not mine 😄) who's down to just... be chill together. Maybe we become friends, maybe something more, maybe just a fun night or two. I’m just looking to meet new people and enjoy each others company

If you're in or near Albany Park and this sounds like your kind of lowkey energy, hit me up. Tell me something random about your day.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 11 days ago

31[M4F] #Chicago- Anyone cool to just hangout and see what happens?

31[M4F] #Albanypark - Anyone cool to just hangout and see what happens? I live alone in Albany park, just looking for a cool chick to hangout with not looking for love or anything in return if we hit it off and wanna makeout a little I’m cool with that too lol

I like to walk, talk, hangout more casually 1 on 1 or in small groups. I don’t really drink, like to swim and bike and just trying to find someone cool to hang with.

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u/OwnIllustrator1609 — 12 days ago